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Why Did My Soulmate Ghost Me?

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can either make you or break you. It’s important to have a soulmate that truly

understands you.  Sometimes, you can be

in a relationship that is thriving at first. However, over sometime, the

relationship begins to fade for one reason or another. 







Your

soulmate may be ghosting you because they feel that you don’t care about

them.  They also may feel that love is to

hard for them to be involved with. They may not want to be with the same person

forever.







You may be

head over heals for your lover, but they may not feel the same way towards you.

They may think of you as being someone that is here today and gone tomorrow.

Sometimes, we can be our own worst enemy. 









Soulmates often

ghost us when they feel that we are not fulfilling their needs. Perhaps you are

contacting him/her to much. Often, soulmates feel like they are not getting or

giving enough. 







If your

soulmate is ghosting you, its best to back off. 

Your significant other is clearly trying to tell you that they want

space and prefer to keep things that way for a while.







If you are

the kind of person that likes to test your significant other a lot, that is

often a problem. The reason for this is because your soulmate often wants to be

left alone.  You may find that its hard

to give of yourself for various reasons. 









In life, you

must go after what you feel is best for yourself.  You can’t control what another person is going

to do all the time. The only thing that you can do is to try your best.







Sometimes,

our soulmate is not always going to tell us what we want to hear.  We will often have to wait for them to tell

us what they are both thinking and feeling. It’s okay to feel a sense of rejection.

Yes, at certain times, you will feel that you are giving more to the

relationship then you are getting in return.







Today,

ghosting is becoming a serious problem. 

You may recall several times in your life, someone ghosted you for no apparent

reason. Perhaps things were going well and then out of nowhere, the person

stopped talking to you. 







Sometimes,

we can have an amazing connection with someone and then find that they are only

pushing us away. 







Many guys

today feel like texting is to much for them to handle. Most men today say that

they prefer talking with their significant other only once a day or several

times a week.  The male and female brain

think differently.







If you are a

woman dating a guy that seems to be ghosting you, you are not alone.  It’s important to see that you can have a

lover in your life that wants to feel that they have plenty of space.  It’s important to keep on mind that guys

often want space more than women do. 







It’s part of

our human nature to be who we are.  We

can’t force someone to talk to us. When they are ignoring us, we often feel a

sense of sadness. Nobody likes to feel that they are second best or not good

enough. Therefore, it’s important for you to say that you can give of yourself

to someone in time.







If your significant

other is trying to push you away, take it as a hint that you might be giving to

much of yourself in love. That can be hard to deal with. At times, you may have

to take a step back and ask yourself if you can honestly give a person what

they need by doing less.  As the saying

goes, “Doing less is often doing more.” 







Nobody likes

to feel rejected. However, when we feel like the person that we are with is

pushing us back, it’s time to reevaluate the situation. It’s time to ask yourself

if you have been to much for them to handle. 

If you are lonely, you may have to find multiple friends to be

with. 







Clinging to

our lover in love is often to hard for most men and women to handle.  Many times, we try to make our lover our

entire world. We want to spend all our time with them because we have love

emotions for them. However, what we feel for them may not be what they feel for

us.







Many lovers often

feel that they don’t want to give someone themselves completely.  They may feel that they want to have a life

outside of you. They may want to have many friends and visit with their family

without you. Know that this is okay. 







Some people

in this world don’t like to feel smothered or like they must give themselves to

someone all the time. 







We live in a

world with many different personalities. 

Some men and women feel that they function better seeing their Significant

other only once a week.  This may be hard

for you to understand if you are the opposite. 

You may be the kind of person that wants to talk with your lover

multiple times a day. However, if they are ghosting you, they are clearly

trying to tell you to leave them alone. 







When you

feel like you are being ghosted, don’t take it personal.  In fact, your lover is just trying to send

you a message that they are feeling smothered by you. You may not even realize

that you are smothering them.







A simple

rule to follow is that if you are texting them and they are not texting you

back, don’t keep on texting them.  Most of

all, don’t stalk their social media to see if they are trying to post something

about you or other aspects of your life.







If you bring

up the fact that you are “scoping” out their social media, they may get freaked

out by you. There is such a thing as giving someone privacy.  If you are dating someone that doesn’t want

you to look at their phone because they have something on there that they don’t

want you to see, then respect their boundary. They are trying to tell you that

they need privacy.  Never violate

something that is meaningful to someone else. 









It’s always

a good idea to read your daily horoscope as well. It will often lead you to a conclusion

to take care of your own life base on your own astrological chart. You will come

to see that it helps to guide you along the way. 







You can

often find yourself getting lost in your horoscope because there is so much

there to teach you. Reading about your lovers’ horoscope will also give you an

awareness of who you are as a person and who they are as a well. You can see

how the two of you pair together. You can find books easily by going to Amazon.com

and checking out some of their books on astrology. 







It’s always

important to pay close attention when someone is trying to give you the message

to back off.  We live in a society today

that doesn’t like or want confrontation. 

People will often shake your hand and then never speak to you again if

they see you in public. Maybe they didn’t like you for some reason. They won’t

say it to your face. However, they will simply ignore you. Yes, ghosting is a

horrible thing. I admit that I have been ghosted myself several times and its

not a good feeling. 







Being

ghosted simply means that we are going to try and do what we can in order to

find our own path next time. This means that we are going to have to try hard

to stay more focused on what is most important in life. I find that learning

more about the person that we are helps our lover to see who we are as

all. 







Remember,

ghosting in a relationship is normal. It simply means that the other person is

saying to leave them alone for now. Take the hint and wait for them to contact

you back.  Once that happens, you will

have a green light to make the relationship come back together again for

you.  In life, you must remember to go

after what you truly believe to be important. Know what you are up against and

try to change your life for the better.







If you are

truly meant to be with your soulmate, your relationship will work for you. Don’t

worry because every relationship needs to grow from time to time. Sometimes that

will include ghosting along the way. Know that you can easily learn how to combat

this by taking your time to think about what will work out best for yourself.

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