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How to Accept Your Bisexual Boyfriend

Posted By infinitehoroscopes on Spiritual Blogging - You may have

noticed that your boyfriend has been checking out guys lately.  Perhaps you already knew that he was

bisexual.  Maybe you are just finding out

about it right now. It’s important for you to learn how to accept him for who

he is if you plan on staying together with him forever. 

Many women

today are finding out that the guy that they are in love with is into both guys

and women.  This may be hard for you to

understand if you are completely straight. Perhaps your religious morals bother

you about his sexuality as well. 


important for you to ask yourself if you are willing to be with a man that “swings

both ways.” Can you accept him for finding other guys attractive? 


About Bisexual Men

Many women

assume that if they are dating a bisexual man, then he cannot be faithful.  He will always cheat on you with someone of

the same sex. However, this is not true.

Most bisexual

men desire love and monogamy in their relationship. Most bisexual men accept

that they are attracted to both men and women, but often decide to choose one

person to be with. This means that even if he were completely straight, he

wouldn’t want to date or be with anyone else except for you. 


important for you to have a sit-down discussion with him about what your expectations

are of him.  You will feel a lot better

having open discussions about whether you are comfortable with him dating

someone of the same gender as he is while you are together.

You may be

shocked to find out that he feels that his heart belongs to you and he doesn’t

want anyone else but you. It’s important for you to always feel like you have your

soulmate with you. 

What If

He Still Wants to Date Guys?


bisexual men decide that dating other guys is something that they still want to

do. He may not be into having a monogamous relationship with only you. You may

feel that he wants to be able to be together with you and others as well. There

is nothing wrong with being with someone that wants to be together with you and

someone else at the same time if you are willing to accept that.

Being bisexual

today is a lot different than it was 30 years ago. Today, people are more

accepting towards alternative lifestyles. You may ask yourself if you are ready

to accept what he wants.  You may even

feel attracted to other women as well. 

Perhaps you are both bisexual in the relationship. 


ground rules, I the relationship is important for the two of you.  It’s important for you to feel comfortable in

the relationship that you are in. 

The Flip


What if your

man was completely straight?  Does it

mean that he would never cheat on you? 

Of course not.  In every

relationship, there is the possibility of someone going outside of the

relationship because they either don’t want monogamy or can’t control their

lustful desires. It may be hard for you to look at the situation for what it


Being honest

with yourself and what works for you is important.  Most women today say that they will accept

their guy if they are willing to obey the rules in the relationship that are

set by both people. 

Just because

someone has an attraction for the opposite or same sex should not make you feel

like you are going to lose that person to someone else.  Millions of women around the world are with

bisexual men. They often have families and relationships that last a

lifetime.  It’s always important to have

a serious talk when you suspect that your guy is attracted to other men.

Millions of

men around the world are realizing that they are bisexual.  We are living in a day in age where many men

believe that they were born like this. It’s important for you to be honest with

yourself and learn to love the person that you are with for who he is. 


serious talks together will help you to see that you don’t have to be afraid of

this side of himself. In fact, many women say that they want to be with someone

that will always love them and grow with until old age. 


Takes Time

All relationships

require acceptance and learning about the person that you are with.  For some women, finding out that their man is

bisexual is their issue. For others, it is finding out that their guy prefers

working over love making.  You will have troubles

to work through in any relationship that you are involved in.

When you

talk about what is on your mind with your life partner, you begin to feel a

certain connection with the person that you are with a lot more deeply.  

As you can

see, you don’t have to be afraid of accepting him for who he is. Know that it

will only allow him to love you more.  He

will want to tell you how he feels and what’s on his mind. 

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