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Are You to Fat for Him?

Posted By infinitehoroscopes on Spiritual Blogging - Has he told

you that he is no longer attracted to you because you are to fat? This is devastating

if you have been together for a while. Often, couples that date for long

periods of time will often run into the problem of their physical appearance

changing over time. 

Many married

women wish that they looked younger and weighed less.  They will often say that their romantic life

has taken a hit because of their physical appearance as well. It’s hard to

imagine your man not wanting you just because you have put on some weight. 

Perhaps when

you first got together, you were a lot slender. 

Believe it or not, men can be very visual.  They are often judging women by their

physical appearance. It may not be what you want to hear, but its often the


If your man

is telling you that he is no longer attracted to you because of your weight,

you may have to do something about it or move on to be with a man that will accept

you for your size. 

You can’t blame

him for not being physically attracted to you anymore.  Just like love, we can’t control what we are

attracted to or in love with.  Both

emotions and feelings come naturally.  If

he is not attracted to overweight women, then its something that you will have

to take a serious look at. 

You Don’t

Have to Lose Weight to Make Him Happy

Only you can

control what goes into your mouth.  If

you are happy with your weight and don’t want to drop any pounds, its important

to be honest with your guy and tell him where you stand. 

You may not

get the answer that you were hoping for. He might say that he is going to start

seeing other women because he doesn’t feel like you turn him on any

longer.  Be prepared to get any type of

response from him.


know that there might be some slender women willing to give him the time and

day.  It’s important to ask yourself what

you want to come out of your relationship. 

He may not

be the kind of guy that wants to love you for who you are.  Today, many men want a slender woman over

someone that may be a few pounds overweight. 

Be Happy

That He Told You the Truth

Many women

wish that their man told them the truth about what is on his mind. Be happy

that you have a man that is willing to tell you how he feels. He can’t help it

if he is bothered by your weight. In fact, you may not like something about him

either.  Perhaps he has bad breath or

doesn’t make enough money.  You may have

not said anything throughout your relationship. 

It’s important

to have communication.  If you want to

change for him because you feel like you want to hold onto the relationship,

then its best to start showing him that you are willing to do something about

your weight in order to keep the relationship moving along. 


of Women Feel Bad About Being Overweight

It’s true

that millions of women in society today are ashamed of their size.  They often wish that they looked like someone

out of a Playboy magazine. However, getting those kinds of bodies takes lots of

hard work and discipline over what you are putting in your mouth.  It’s important to be realistic with yourself.  Do you have what it takes to be a slimmer

woman?  Not everyone can do it. 

Today, food temptation

is all around you.  Being thin will

require you to put aside a lot of your favorite food and beverages. You may be

asking yourself if its even possible for you to do it.

Be realistic

about what you are thinking about doing. 

Perhaps you can drop ten pounds with out a problem. However, being the

slender woman that he desires is something that you may not be able to


If you

believe that you can’t be the kind of woman that he wants you to be, it may be

a good idea to call your relationship quits. 

If he starts dating other women behind your back or calling you fatso

and fat ass, it will ruin your self esteem and overall quality of life. 

You know

what is happening in your relationship right now. Nobody can know this better

than you. It’s time for you to start thinking more seriously about what you are

willing to put up with and what you are not. 

If you can’t

fulfill his needs and desires, you may not have any other choice but to leave the

relationship.  You will feel better about

yourself in the long run and live a more realistic life.  There are millions of men that like dating an

overweight woman.  You don’t need to have

a man in your life that doesn’t accept you for who you are. 

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