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Are you a blogger? If so, then do you actually have what it takes to be a successful blogger? To be a blogger one must posses the ultimate necessities that I have outlined in this blog post to succeed in the blogging world. Blogging is not for everyone and the necessities that I have covered in this blog post are the things that set successful, driven and happy bloggers apart from those bloggers who typically fall flat upon their bottoms in blogging disdain. Let’s begin to explore the must-have qualities of a blogger who is looking for success (traffic, interaction, a high blogger morale, and an income from blogging) with his or her blog.
- Thick Skin – To be a blogger, you must have extremely thick skin because you are publishing your ideas to the Internet where there will definitely be millions of people who won’t like what you have to say. I’m sorry, but that’s just the way it is. Some people will even take their dislike for your content or you even further by leaving negative and hurtful comments on all of your blog posts, videos, etc. The people who engage in persistent, negative behavior in the form of comments, emails, etc. are known as trolls. Basically, as a blogger (and especially one who’s uber-popular) you have to be apathetic about others’ distaste for your blogging and entrepreneurial efforts. As the saying goes, haters are gonna hate.
- Patience – Although blogging is an Internet thing and things on the Internet happen extremely quickly, it still takes time to grow your blog’s readership. Nothing happens fast when you are building a Web site or a blog that will be a long-term Internet endeavor for you. Patience is of the essence when building all things that are great.
- Purpose – Us bloggers have to have a purpose for writing content each day because it is really easy for us to get off track. You have to give yourself a reason for writing each day. My primary reason for publishing to my blog each day is that I just love writing in general. I’ve always liked to write, even as a young kid. The second reason I write is to give others good content to read and I’m sometimes write to entertain others. Thirdly, I blog to meet new people online and engage in conversations with them. All those things are the reasons I make it my duty to write a post every day.
- Persistence - Readers absolutely love it when they stumble upon a blogger who is persistent with how often he or she posts. No one likes to stumble upon a good blog, subscribe to that blog, then feel like the author of the blog has abandoned them because he or she hasn’t posted in ages. Persistence is an absolute commodity in the blogosphere.
- Passion – If you’re a blogger, then having a passion for your blog is a huge must-have. If there is no passion for what you do as a blogger, then you will be very vulnerable to quitting blogging altogether when things don’t go well for you in your journey as a blogger. Whether it’s not getting the traffic you desire to have, having technical difficulties, not yet being in a position to be compensated for your blogging efforts, etc. Your purpose and passion for blogging must be the two things that will help your blogging career soar, even though there may be times where you may start to feel like blogging is not worth your energy and time.
- Be Sociable – Lastly, a blogger who wants to get their content read and get people subscribing to their blog has to be social. Insular blogging will not get any blogger who wants to blog for success very far in the blogosphere. Blogging is not about publishing a lot of good content to your blog and expecting people to automatically come to your blog and subscribe to it. Sadly, I did insular blogging awhile ago and it was no fun experience at all. My path of insular blogging lead me to getting hardly any traffic and a low blog-esteem (yes, I did just create a word), so I just quit blogging because I was hardly getting any results from my blogging efforts. Later, I realized that I had to interact with other bloggers if I were ever going to get anywhere in my blogging career. I started using reddit (an amazing social bookmarking Web site) a lot to promote my posts (and that is still where most of my traffic comes from), commenting on others’ blogs, Blog Engage, Blog Interact, and Blog Catalog to be the sociable blogger that I needed to be to generate success for my blog. After getting myself out there a bit, I started getting Facebook likes, getting added to circles on Google Plus, and I started receiving blog comments. I’ll admit that I still have a very small hand of readers, but there is not a day where I do not see growth in my blog and that is huge for me. Being sociable is a blogger’s must.
A blogger who has the six traits above will definitely succeed in their blogging career. Most important, building a successful blog with lots of feed subscriptions, Facebook likes, Google Plus followers, Twitter followers, etc. just naturally takes time for most of us, so don’t try to rush it because you will eventually get there. If you have thick skin and the actions of others don’t stress you, are patient with achieving blogging success, have a purpose to fuel your blogging, are persistent in your frequency of posting, passionate about blogging, and you’re sociable in the blogosphere, then you won’t have a difficult time getting the blog you’ve always dreamed about. Remember, time is a virtue.
About Kevin Martin
Hello all! I am Kevin Martin and I'm a proud member of Blog Engage and I am a fervent personal development blogger at The Annoying Life.


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Holly Jahangiri
March 18th, 2012
Having a thick skin is a MUST – for any writer, and bloggers (well, good bloggers, anyway) are writers. They may not be good writers (yet!) but if they keep at it long enough, have a thick skin (but also the ability to take constructive criticism well and USE it), they’ll eventually improve and become good writers.
Haters gonna hate – that’s true, too. For the trolls who take it further than the Internet, there’s law enforcement. Keep in mind that in most states, cyberbullying IS a crime. For the most part, it’s not worth worrying about the trolls – in fact, I turned things around one day just by recognizing that one of them was a kid – and most likely, someone had kicked him around that day, and he was just lashing out at some stranger online. As soon as I replied “Wow, I am sorry you’ve had a rotten day, and I hope venting some of that frustration on a random stranger has helped you to feel a little better about yourself,” he couldn’t apologize fast enough – and we ended up being friends. Sometimes, even the trolls are human.
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Kevin Martin
March 18th, 2012
I agree with actually using constructive criticism to make yourself a better writer, but many people don’t know how to constructively criticize. Also, you’re the first person I’ve known to ever befriend a troll; you should get some kind of award for that.
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Deborah Anderson
March 18th, 2012
Holly,
I was chuckling at the “good bloggers, anyway,” having caught my attention. So true! Although, I have to admit that “thick skin” takes work… Things like purpose, passion, and being socialable (and loving hugs!) comes easy, but the thick skin… Hey, all of us have ares for improvement, right?
Thanks for the comment, “Haters gonna hate” – that is helpful to remember.
And, Kevin, thanks for the great post!
-Deborah
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Kevin Martin
March 18th, 2012
I’m glad you like the post.
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Deborah Anderson
April 17th, 2012
Kevin,
Ok, I am confusing myself! See, Kevin, it was such a great article that I realize I had already posted with my PositivePersistence.com profile, above!
Hey, it is still a great article and yes, it was great to review the bullet points, again, and especially remind myself of that “thick skin” one!
-Deborah
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Nimsrules
March 18th, 2012
And perseverance. Widely acknowledged yet an essential aspect. And as Holly said, haters are gonna hate. But it’s all about different opinions from different individuals. Great post Kevin.
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Kevin Martin
March 18th, 2012
Yeah, perseverance is a major aspect of being a blogger because as I’ve mentioned in the post, times are going to get rough in your blogging journey and that usually causes many bloggers to become vulnerable to quitting blogging altogether. Thanks for commenting and I’m glad you like the post.
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Richmond Cleaning Company
March 18th, 2012
Brilliantly written , Kevin. From my point of view ,being Sociable is the most significant matter for promotion of your blog. Nowadays, you can use social media and a lot of digital communities to communicate your blog. Appreciating your effort and it would be nice to get more from you in future.
Kevin Martin
March 18th, 2012
I’m glad you like the post. Being sociable is an absolute must for any blogger who’s looking for a large audience. You can’t have a successful blog without being sociable just as you can’t be fit if you don’t exercise. I hope to guest post more often for this blog because I love Blog Engage. The only thing that stops me from guest posting more often is my schedule, finding time to type a crafty blog post is hard, especially during the weekdays. Thanks for commenting.
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Jeevanjacobjohn
March 18th, 2012
Hey Kevin,
If I read this article a few months back, I would have agreed. But, right now, I am with the opinion that there is no rules in blogging – it’s all about sharing and helping others – in whatever way you like. Some things, work. Others, don’t. But that doesn’t mean that they don’t work at all – we just need to keep trying, maybe change the environment.
Right now, I don’t care about these things – and I certainly do see the positives of “following” and not following these things – take the example of patience, If you are patient, you will be able to achieve lot of things over time. If you are impatient, it might motivate you to put a lot more hard work over a small time frame – so that you can achieve more.
You just need to approach it from a positive perspective – everything has one – even evilness
Evilness is rooted in goodness (there is no evil without good, same is true for all these things that you mentioned).
Thanks for sharing the awesome tips,
Jeevan Jacob John
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Kevin Martin
March 18th, 2012
I’m glad you commented, Jeevan. I agree that it’s definitely good for a blogger to do what works for him or her, but the things that I’ve outlined generally help new bloggers push through the adversity that comes with building up a popular blog from scratch.
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Abhi Balani
March 19th, 2012
Hey Kevin,
Definitely a great post. I shared about signs of a Good Blogger in one of my previous post in which I got 380+ comments. Have linked it below. Let me know if you like it.
Good luck for the contest. Wish me luck, too. LOL!!
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Kevin Martin
March 19th, 2012
Hi, Abhi. I’m glad you liked the post. Anyone who gets 380+ comments on only one post is a blogging god. I’ll definitely read your post and comment. Thanks for commenting also.
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Abhi Balani
March 19th, 2012
Ohh man, no, not at all. It was my first guest post. and yes, I’m still counting. See you on my post.
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Kevin Martin
March 19th, 2012
Okay.
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Amanda
March 20th, 2012
All the things you have mentioned are really true and every blogger should know about them
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Kevin Martin
March 20th, 2012
I’m glad this post could be of value to you. I only wrote the post to guide new bloggers whose blogs aren’t really off the ground yet.
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bbrian017
March 27th, 2012
It may sound sad, but I don’t know if I’m traditionally a blogger… I don’t have my own blog, I blog on regular basis and most my posts here on Blog Engage are about themes and or promotional posts for our RSS services. With that said I guess my seomkt.com blog stands up for me and maybe makes me a little bit of a blogger haha! Perhaps I should get back into writing over there… Blogging is hard, think skin is such a must, and if you always need a tap on the back or compliment maybe blogging isn’t for you lol. Great post Kevin, best of luck my friend.
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Kevin Martin
March 27th, 2012
Blogging is only difficult for me because I sometimes have a hard time finding topics to write about. Not being a traditional blogger may not be a bad thing at all. If you were a traditional blogger, you probably would have never started Blog Engage. Basically, to be a blogger is to be a renegade; you can’t care too much about what others think.
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Caleb
April 17th, 2012
We all must beware of the “low blog esteem” syndrome
That’s one I’ll be sure to remember!
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Kevin Martin
April 17th, 2012
“Low blog-esteem” syndrome is bad. No blogger likes to go through that feeling that their blogging efforts are completely pointless and that is why I recommend being a sociable blogger. Get out there and interact with other bloggers. Comment on others’ posts, retweet their articles, and most bloggers will do the same for you in return. In blogging, being sociable is such an important factor. Forming good relationships is the key to good blogging.
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Julia Spenser
June 10th, 2012
I think that the most important are passion and confidence in future success. and every blogger should also be very tolerant
Kevin Martin
June 10th, 2012
I agree with you, Julia! You have to have faith in your blogging efforts because becoming a successful blogger is quite difficult, if you’re not a household name. Also, if the idea of making money is fueling one’s blogging rather than passion, then that blogger won’t be successful because he won’t enjoy what he’s doing (even if he is making lots of money from blogging). Thanks for commenting, Julia.
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