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Blogging has really been around since the caveman days. The drawings on the walls told stories about their days or things they wanted others to know about. It could have been about their big hunt that day or telling others what areas to avoid danger. It could have been to barter and trade things amongst themselves. Archeologists are still trying to translate the many paintings that survived from their day.
The word blogging as we know it online started in the late 1990s and the term was actually coined in 1999 by Peter Merholz in his own blog Peterme.com. The word blog is both a noun and a verb.
When you first started blogging did you think of blogging as another social media network that you had to interact on for traffic? I know I did not know that when I first started blogging.
But as time went on and you wondered why you were not receiving comments it was time to wake up and take action. Blogging is not just all about writing and putting your words onto the web. It’s about being social with others online. Conversation starters can come right from your blog if you do it right. Of course great content is a major plus when you are blogging. Who would want to comment or share if the content is just so-so?
Of course if you are a Seth Godin you don’t need to. If you don’t know who Seth is, he is an American entrepreneur, author and public speaker. Godin popularized the topic of permission marketing. It is the way marketers ask permission before sending an email or newsletter. Seth was also the founder of Squidoo. It is a community website that allows users to create pages (which they call lenses) for subjects of interest. Seth blogs without comments and his blog is still highly read, shared and talked about. But most of us are not Seth. If you want your blog to be read you must share, read others and comment along the way.
There are several ways to comment. My favorite one is the CommenLuv system. It’s easy to sign up and set up. If I can do – so can you! Every time you publish a new post it is included in your comments on other’s blogs. There is also a premium version available. CommentLuv encourages comments and interactions to your posts. It also helps you to build backlinks. We all know how important that is to Google to have your website or blog ranking up there in the search with backlinks. The premium addition has features that will help your posts to go viral. It can show when previous commenter’s click on the social enticement buttons when they commented. It also prevents spam as the comment doesn’t even get entered in to your database unless it passes the rules that you set in the settings. You can even specify what message gets displayed. Very nice! It also lets you set a minimum of words for comments so if someone just says “nice post” it will not be posted. You want comments on your posts to be real. It also sets the minimum amount of seconds that person has to be on the page to comment to avoid spammers who have everything pre-loaded in programs and just hit the submit button. Those dirty rotten spammers!
Another popular commenting system is called Disqus which has been around since 2007. It is used by over ½ billion people today online. It makes commenting easier and interactive. The plug-in integrates using the Disqus API and syncing with WordPress comments. You have threaded comments and replies as well as notifications via email. You may subscribe or use RSS options too.
You can login via the following with Disqus:
- name/email
- Disqus
- Yahoo
- OpenID
- Web |
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Another similar one is LiveFyre. LiveFyre lets you send comments to Twitter and Facebook, but the formatting is little different from Disqus. LifeFryre does not give you any backlink juice and some bloggers like Ana from the Traffic Generation Cafe stays away from it for that reason. It does offer back and forth commenting which some people may like.
If you are on Blogger you can use the Blogger comment and it will link back to your Blogger blog. You can also put in your name and URL if you do not have a blogger formatted blog. It does give you several options to choose from. When you comment it does leave backlink to your blog. It does not leave the last post like CommentLuv does.
Some bloggers prefer the Facebook or Twitter login. I am not a big fan of those. I prefer to drive traffic and backlinks to my main sites rather than Facebook and Twitter which I do use as well but not for commenting.
I prefer sharing the posts. The mother of all plug-ins for sharing is DIggDigg and I just love this one. I learned about it from Ms. Ileane. I had to ask as I had seen in on various websites and really wanted it as it has many features including the Blog Engage share button too! You can pick and choose from many different social bookmarking sites with their share button. You can use it on the side bar or under and/or above each of your blogs posts.
So how does this all make blogging a two-way street? I find it similar to being on Twitter – you have conversations with others bloggers on their posts and you get to know them better. What better way than to comment and go back and forth over points on posts on which you agree or disagree? Isn’t that what social is all about? It’s like being around the fire pit and discussing issues of the day.
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About Lisa Buben
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Mayura
May 13th, 2012
Commenting and sharing are two critical factors when it comes to blogging and communication. It isn’t like watching TV or reading newspaper where you can’t respond. Comments are the best way to get feedback or start conversations related to. Additionally, conversations can be started on social networks after sharing them. Web forums is another place where your posts can be recommended and start conversations. Blogging itself doesn’t effective without socializing and getting feedback. You know, sometimes people just spam on blogs just to create backlinks in return. You’ve elaborated nice comment systems for users to get rid of them with their pros and cons.
Nice article Lisa
Cheers…
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LisaInspire
May 14th, 2012
Thanks Mayura for coming by and commenting here. I hope you will enter too. I hate when spammers try to put comments through, my pet peeve.
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JanB
May 13th, 2012
I believe it is, although it’s a 2 way street and I would like it to by 6 lanes each way. Bur I’m working on that. Just a matter of patience (which I don’t have) and hard work.
Sharing with others – no matter what – is crucial. And it’s leaves one with a good feeling if one helped someone out. It’s rewarding and “you get from life what you put in”.
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LisaInspire
May 14th, 2012
Hi Jan, Good point – 6 lanes each way! I like that one. It is rewarding when you see comments left behind, especially if you helped someone along the way. You should enter too Jan!
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Anna Maria Angelosanto
May 14th, 2012
Great commentary on blogging………you always have a fresh outlook on the latest trends on social media and blogging!!!! Great job!!!
LisaInspire
May 14th, 2012
Thanks Anna for coming by. I hope you work more on your blog, it sure will be an awesome one with the way you write. It would help others out too.
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Holly Jahangiri
May 14th, 2012
You know, until I read this (and double-checked YOUR facts), I could’ve SWORN the word blog was around a good year earlier than you claimed. Because I thought Pyra Labs started Blogger back in 1998, not 1999 – if not before that. So much for my claims of having blogged for-effing-ever.
Still…13 years? In Internet years, that’s STILL for-effing-ever.
And I still think the word “blog” sounds like a gastrointestinal disorder, but all attempts to come up with a word that meant dynamic-electronic-bully-pulpit that caught on better than “blog” failed miserably.
I use the native comment system of WordPress. I used to play with add-on commenting systems, but why drive traffic to other sites and slow my own blog down when those systems’ servers are sluggish? (That, and I find it particularly annoying to have to log onto other bloggers’ various commenting platforms just to leave a comment. At least, for the whole name, url, twitter handle thing, the browser’s got autocomplete.
Psssst…don’t forget to submit this here to Blog Engage (so we can vote) and BizSugar (so we can vote).
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LisaInspire
May 14th, 2012
Yes, I did do the research
I would never put something in like that without it. 13 years – That is a long time to be blogging, congratulations for sticking with it Holly! Thanks for the reminders – will do soon.
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Holly Jahangiri
May 15th, 2012
Not so long, really. I created my first web site just to teach myself HTML. But that got pretty boring, pretty fast. CSS hadn’t yet hit the scene, and a blog looked like an easy way to add some dynamic, interactive features to my site. For a while, I had it integrated into my site, using the same template – it was pretty cool! And got boring pretty fast.
Somewhere along the way, I decided to try blogging as a journal. A little voice said, “But you SUCKED at keeping a journal! Why on earth would you want to do it publicly and let everyone see just how bad you are at writing a journal?” I tried, but I still sucked at it. See, I don’t write every day – if I don’t have something to say, I jut blather on an bore myself to tears if I try.
And then I realized that it didn’t matter a bit. If I didn’t write every day, so what? As I ask my kids when they’re having a “crisis,” – “Did anybody die? I there any chance someone WILL die? OK, what’s the absolute WORST thing you can imagine MIGHT happen?” and so on, until we’re all laughing and the world’s back in perspective.
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Brenda
May 15th, 2012
Awesome post Lisa! You should look at IntenseDebate commenting system at well. It has CommentLuv built right into it. Great for those who use Blogger!
I however, decided not to use CommentLuv on my new blog. Forces commenters to either manually link up their blog in their post or have a profile ready in their avatar. 
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LisaInspire
May 15th, 2012
Great point Brenda – will have to check that one out too. Thanks for coming by to read this one here on Blog Engage.
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Samantha Gluck
May 15th, 2012
Hi Lisa,
I think you’re absolutely right about blogging and the various social media platforms: to really reap the benefits of having a blog or a social media profile, people need to view them as a two way street. We need to support one another by stepping outside ourselves, the pressures put upon us by our task lists, and any fear we have about sharing our true feelings (tactfully, of course) about an article in the comment section. I’ve had more engagement than ever on my writing site lately and I think that although many factors play into it, part of the increase is due to the fact that I’ve been taking more time to comment on blog articles and posts shared on Google Plus and elsewhere.
I love Twitter and Google Plus. The people I’ve come to know there as well as countless others that I engage with on a lesser scale have truly enriched both my personal and professional life. It’s all about reaching outside of ourselves. Only then will we begin to see the back and forth we long for on our websites grow.
You’re inspiring and definitely help me to thrive, Lisa. So blessed to read your posts and musings.
Samantha
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LisaInspire
May 15th, 2012
Thanks Samantha. I have found so many bloggers to be super supportive like yourself. It really amazed me at first. And the same for folks over on Twitter, such a great community. I’m glad you came by today and you should consider joining here too.
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Peter Palme
May 16th, 2012
Thank you very much for sharing. I got some insights into commenting through your perspective. I was under the false perception that by now I knew all about commenting. Seth is a farsighted inspirator and I see this now how squidoo is growing in influence.
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Lisa
May 18th, 2012
Glad you were able to get some insights here Peter. I see your must really like Squidoo. I haven’t done enough there yet to really judge it. Thanks for the comment here.
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bbrian017
May 23rd, 2012
Hi Lisa, I’m not sure why but you still haven’t submitted this using all the buttons, make sure to do so, it will increase your chances of winning, you get social points you know. your right about a blog not only being about writing and getting comments. without social networking we have nothing. Everyone I have meet was because of social networking and blog commenting. You know I have been considering Disqus and I have also been watching Justin use livefyre. I’m not sure if I want to move over to either yet… but if it means being more social then perhaps it’s time I do it…
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Lisa
May 23rd, 2012
Thanks Brian, I will check that out. I have heard wonderful things about Disqus too and watching Mayura use it over on Blogger.
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abhibalani
June 5th, 2012
Hello Lisa,
I don’t know if you remember me.
Good luck in the contest. But I don’t know why you haven’t submitted your entry in Blog Engage stories. You are missing lot of points.. Well, I am giving you all shares here.
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Lisa
June 5th, 2012
Abhlbalan, How do I do that? I thought it was done, thanks for the tip! Yes, I do remember you:) I will look around and see if I can see where stories is. I may have an idea and will try it out. Thanks again.
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Jamella Biegel
June 10th, 2012
Hi Lisa,
I absolutely believe blogging is a two way street. I hate when I visit a blog, leave a comment, and don’t get a response from the author. Or how about blogs that have the comments section closed? I don’t quite get that!
I love Commentluv Premium for all of the benefits it offers. I still get a few spam comments, but I don’t publish those.
When I first started my blog last year, I was fortunate to come across Adrienne Smith’s blog, and quickly realized the importance of commenting. If someone takes the time to read my post and respond appropriately, they will definitely get a response. That is the least I can do for my readers.
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Lisa
June 10th, 2012
Hi Jamella,
Yes, I don’t understand those that have the closed comments either. I haven’t tried the premium yet but I”m hoping by next year to. I do like the comment method a lot! Adrienne is awesome. I don’t how she keeps up with it all. Thanks for commenting here.
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JenaIsle
October 1st, 2012
Hello Lisa,
I thought you have not joined the contest, but here you are. I have learned some items from your post. I’ve never used either Disqus or LifeFyre. I’m not so much on commenting and similar stuff because I earn more now that I don’t socialize a lot, but I might try Disqus in the future.
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