
Qualifying Article for Year End $1000 USD Contest
A Fragile Alliance
In recent weeks, I’ve discovered that there is a tentative and fragile alliance between my inner optimist and my inner cynic, my inner idealist and my inner pragmatist. I propose that, as bloggers, we strive to balance our core values with our desire for financial success, and try to succeed at both. To do less is to be less.
To that end, I hope not only to influence your approach to blogging as we move towards the New Year, but also to enlist your help in ensuring my financial success – by voting for, sharing, and having a real and engaging conversation in the comments section of this post. There’s a $1000 prize at stake, so I hope you enjoy this post and find it thought-provoking.
Politics, Products, and Promotion
If there is one good thing about an ugly and contentious election year in the United States of America, it is that people who slept through high school Civics class are now catching up, gaining a deeper understanding of their Constitutional rights and obligations, including the right to vote. They are awakening to the fact that one vote, one person, can make a difference.
Even in the heat of battle, U.S. elections are still reflecting some of our higher values. Foreign election officials have marveled at the trust we have in the process and in each other. Is it worth losing that to sell more ads and airtime on TV? Buried under a barrage of ads and opinions, how do we decide who and what to vote for – or against? Remember that you can find all the answers by searching the Internet, so long as you don’t much care that any of them are accurate. The news media should reliably report the facts, and, through editorial opinion pieces, influence readers’ choices through persuasive arguments. But, as any blogger worth his salt knows, that facts aren’t as important to the advertising sponsors as a sensational headline or a tantalizing hint of scandal.
You may be wondering, “What has this got to do with me? I don’t blog about politics. Why should I care?” Putting politics aside, for a moment, ask yourself what it is you do as a blogger. Most likely, you blog to inform your readers, to influence their choices, and to sell products. It can be very tempting to use these catchy headlines and titillating bits – to weave them into your own blog like bait on a hook – without taking time to research the facts and build an argument on solid evidence.
I would urge all bloggers – but particularly the young, who still have so much to learn and experience – to resist the temptation to write about topics they barely understand and care even less about, just because someone has told them it’s going to make them a ton of money and it’s “good for SEO.” How many bloggers have become rich just following someone else’s lead, re-spinning the headline news without explaining their own thought processes or infusing it with fresh opinions of their own? Write what you know – but also share what you’re learning and the ideas that have led you to your conclusions. Be humble. The need to be right all the time makes people to want to kick you in the shins and prove you wrong.
Consider the awesome power of the press, and the fact that every blogger has the opportunity to reach a global audience of amazing proportions. As “citizen journalists,” we can be heard and we can make a difference in the world. It’s our choice whether we make a positive difference or simply add to the noise and confusion. That much is within our control.
Passion, Credibility, and Core Values
Forget about passion – figure out what your core values are, things like “honesty,” “integrity,” “family,” “success,” “faith,” and so on – and let them infuse your writing with heart and meaning.
“Wait, what? Core values? I’m writing about trashy celebs, gadgets, sex toys, diapers, and cell phones. There’s no money to be had in this ‘core values’ stuff.” I’m not so sure that’s true, but it can be tough to choose between the promise of short term gain and the slower, harder path to a solid reputation and authority. Do the things you’re blogging about matter to you, or are you just doing it for the keywords? Why do you think these things matter to the people who are searching for them? Do you think it’s possible for your cell phone to reflect your core values? Have you ever heard of Credo Mobile or Working Assets? How can you blog about your chosen topics, provide value to people searching for information, and yet make your blog a reflection of what matters most?
Just as important: How would you feel if a friend advised you to buy a piece of junk with your hard-earned cash? Would it matter to you that he’d read somewhere that it was a really great thing – and was just repeating what he’d heard? How would you feel if you could be sent to jail just because three people said, “Someone told me he committed the crime. Why shouldn’t I believe them?” Facts matter. If honesty isn’t one of our core values, as bloggers, we are really doing ourselves and each other a disservice.
You may think, “I can’t afford to be that honest, I have to earn a living!” Yes, we all do – but if we’re not honest and fair with each other, we can’t trust anyone. Where does that leave us?
Write for a Cause
There’s another old saying: “If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem.” Refuse to be part of the problem. As we move into 2013, consider how you can influence everyone around you to be better, and resolve to make the world a nicer place. It’s the only place we’ve got.
Promote What’s Good!
Have you considered joining affiliate programs based on whether the companies and products you help to sell represent the things you believe in? Consumers are beginning to care about corporate ethics, particularly in the United States, after Citizens United v. FEC gave corporations unprecedented power to influence election outcomes. When choosing between two similar products, the decision may well hinge on whether the company that makes and sells the products reflects the buyer’s own values. Look into whether the companies behind the products and services you promote are actively working against the things you believe in. Can you turn a blind eye to abusive labor practices because it keeps your toys affordable? I think that issues will become a greater factor in buying decisions as we move forward into 2013 and beyond. Blog about your own choices and the information you found that helped you to make them. Then promote the people, the companies, and the products that help form the kind of world you want to live in. You will, at least, be starting the conversation.
Do something just because it’s good, too. Search engines don’t buy products or click on ads – people do. Join in Blog Action Day, in 2013. Or take up another cause. Raise funds to fight cancer or bring clean water to communities that don’t have enough of it. Or to help end hunger.
Learn & Share
Whether you’re 10 or 110, one of the keys to living a full, rich life is to keep learning new things. What are you curious to know? Share what you learn with others. If you’re writing blogging tips, look for some unusual work-savers and shortcuts. Develop a whole new method of doing something. What new things are you driven to create or to experience? Be sure to take pictures and tell your readers all about it. How did you go from dreaming to doing?
Stir the Pot
Remember: Controversy sells, too. There’s enough of it in the world that you don’t even need to add hype and drama – in fact, if you sincerely want to start a conversation and solve a problem, I’d suggest you ground your posts in facts and personal convictions, focusing on the issues that matter to you and avoiding the hype and drama that might cause readers to ignore you.
A good discussion involves listening, as well as speaking. Encourage people to engage in conversations – with you and with each other – and discourage vague generalizations. During the political campaign, I often heard people say things like, “Why should I vote? All politicians are alike. They all lie.” Perhaps that’s true. What can we do to encourage greater honesty, and lessen the rewards of lying (which could also be called “telling people only what they want to hear”)? Are all smartphones alike? What are the differences and, more to the point, why do they matter?
Together, as bloggers, we can make a difference. It doesn’t always have to be some grandiose effort on a global scale. Resolve to be credible and to make a positive difference in your readers’ lives, and you can change the world – starting with your little corner of it.
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About Holly Jahangiri
On a good writing day, Holly Jahangiri claims (tongue-in-cheek) to be channeling the spirits of Edgar Allan Poe, Erma Bombeck, and O. Henry. On a bad writing day, she claims to have poured every last ounce of her creative ability and energy into childbirth, and has two wonderful children to prove it. You can find her on Twitter @HollyJahangiri (http://twitter.com/hollyjahangiri), Facebook (http://facebook.com/hollyjahangiri), and It's All a Matter of Perspective (http://jahangiri.us/new) - to name just a few of the places this social media butterfly flits.
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Tags: 2013 resolutions, advertising, blogging, core values, ethics, guest blogging contest, politics, trust


Lennart Heleander
January 17th, 2013
Hi Holly,
Jesus, the mass of comments on the article, I could only read about 100 to 150 comments. Good article. Good luck in the match of articles with the most comments.
Holly Jahangiri
January 19th, 2013
LOL – yeah! Lots of these comments are actually posts masquerading as comments. I love it.
I think if I could win it on comments alone, I’d have this contest licked – I definitely have the best commenters on the planet, over here.
Thank you for your continuing support, Lennart. It means a lot to me.
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Hajra
January 28th, 2013
Going by the amazing conversation you have initiated here, I would say you are winner! Fingers crossed!
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Holly Jahangiri
January 28th, 2013
I hope so!
Of course, it’s a great conversation to have, isn’t it? A very necessary one, I think. And to answer my own question, I DO think bloggers can be both. I don’t think “make a bazillion dollars” is much of a goal in and of itself – nor is it realistic without some idealistic (and imaginative) thought surrounding the content of the blog – and, in fact, the whole atmosphere of the thing. (To that end, I’ve redesigned most of mine and “post daily” is not really one of my goals – I’d rather post when I have something to say or to entertain people with, and I’m still thinking about those things, trying to make sure that any blogs I keep running have a purpose.)
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Dave
January 17th, 2013
I think that it is OK to hold some idealistic beliefs and rituals while writing about them in front of God, the kids and the babysitter–like first checking under the bed with a flashlight rather than taking a running start from the doorway and diving into bed–foregoing all precaution when retiring for the night.
I enjoy a bit of pragmatism and well placed logic in a blog as long as it’s thoughtful and not slanted like the side of the Grand Canyon or the Great Rift Valley, I enjoy pragmatic thought if it is considerate and USA centric because I live here and that is what I know. I expect others to educate me if I comment or make friends with them–when I mess up on foreign protocol I need polite correction to maintain or develop a new friendship…We might come from different backgrounds and my pragmatism might differ and there’s a learning curve where I may need some help and coaching so I’m not offended by your blue jello because my custom dictates that I only eat yellow-jello.
Good writing spans cultures and some blogs burry their pragmatism (ideology) in global foibles, they’re like precious gems as they avoid universal bullshit and present a borealis of thought that is visible and appreciated by anyone that has ever watched Star Trek.
Holly Jahangiri
January 19th, 2013
Ad Astra… onwards and upwards! Who am I kidding? My pragmatism is tempered by a low tolerance for boredom, an overactive imagination, and a belief in monsters wearing dust bunny slippers and sleeping in sweaty gym socks under the bed. Nothing “universal” about my bullshit, is there, Dave?
It would be presumptuous of me to write with anything but a USA-centric perspective, of course – like you, I live here and it’s what I know; but I’m fortunate to have traveled enough and met enough people from all walks of life and nationalities to not be blind to or uninterested in what they bring to the conversation. I’ll let them tell their own stories from their own perspective, but I enjoy reading them. I think we ALL mess up on “foreign protocol” – shoot, we mess up on simple etiquette in our own homes, how could we NOT? I’m convinced that if we could all just be a little more eager to give benefit of the doubt – a little less gleeful about pouncing on others’ gaffes – the world could find peace and be a nicer place. Then again, some people just enjoy drama and bitchiness. I wonder if they would, though, if no one picked on THEM and their world was a happier place? It’s a vicious cycle, isn’t it?
Have some purple Jell-O.
Watch out for the green sparkly ones – they’re spiked.
Prunebutt raised an eye at “borealis of thought” and asked if you have an agent, yet.
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Dave
January 19th, 2013
I probably didn’t express myself very well. American English has more nuance than Taylor Swift has ex-boyfriends. Your blog and writing has always been a blend of idealistic and pragmatic thought Holly, you have friends from around the world. You have recommended a few of those friends to me based on perceived common ground where I wasn’t likely to make an enemy right off the bat and I’ve met others through your blog or guest blogs. I find it easier to meet someone from a different country and complete a friendship feeling each other out on linguistic ground-rules before communicating than I do with someone in America.
A friend sent me this the other day and I have no idea if it is true or not but it’s a good story:
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“English lesson
No dictionary has been able to explain adequately the difference between COMPLETE and FINISHED.
However, at a recent linguistics conference held in London , England , and attended by some of the best linguists in the world, Samsundar Balgobin, a Guyanese, was the clear winner.
His final challenge was this:
Some say there is no difference between COMPLETE and FINISHED.
Please explain the difference between COMPLETE and FINISHED in a way that is easy to understand.
Here is his astute answer:
“When you marry the right woman, you are COMPLETE.
But, when you marry the wrong woman, you are FINISHED.
And when the right one catches you with the wrong one, you are COMPLETELY FINISHED !”
His answer was received with a standing ovation lasting over 5 minutes, and it entitled him to receive an invitation to dine with the Queen.”
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I’ve COMPLETED this post and have to go find the shovel and FINISH the Pygmy Rattler in my bushes. Afterwards, I’ll combine and COMPLETE a batch of blue and red jello. The youngins will help me FINISH it off. A blogger can never be COMPLETELY idealistic or pragmatic while blending fact, fiction and creative hallucination or they’d be washed up and FINISHED I think.
Dave
Holly Jahangiri
January 19th, 2013
Dave, I can’t imagine you making enemies, period. But if I have emboldened you to expand your circle of friends to folks on the other side of the globe, I’m pleased as punch – I do love to see my friends become friends. (Even if I do sometimes have the urge to tell my dad you were my friend, first, and not to get you “liking” something that’s going to make me want to pout and give you both the evil eye for a day or three!)
Over 20 years ago, I was talking with a dear friend I’d met on GEnie – we STILL haven’t met, face to face, though we’ve talked for hours on the phone. I said, and she was a bit insulted, at first – we’d have never given each other the time of day, had we met first in person. I think it’s true, though. We had very little in common, on the surface. We had very different lifestyles. We wouldn’t have naturally been inclined to sit down and get acquainted over coffee or a meal.
But we met online, and shared common interests in writing, gaming, and motherhood – and because we talked a lot and bonded over those, we took time to really get to know each other better. We laughed and joked and teased each other. Our friendship means a great deal to me – even though, honestly, I didn’t know what she LOOKED like until a few years ago, when I finally got her to post a profile picture!
Please don’t get bitten. Few things scare me like poisonous snakes, spiders, and needles (makes sense when you think about it – they all have something in common, don’t they?) I’d feel incomplete without our friendship, and would hate for a pygmy rattler to finish you off! (I do want to try rattlesnake meat, one of these days, though… maybe you could skin it and send it to me, headless, on dry ice? No, on second thought – skip that.)
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Dave
January 19th, 2013
Well, I might send you both parts of the snake anyway Holly. Imagine archeologists ten thousand years from now saying: ” Look! I found shipping labels!!!” as they dig up the area once known as Houston. “This is quite strange” says the head paleontologist, “Why would there be two shipping boxes, one with swords and another with a reptile body?”
Student: “Says right here on this faded label: ‘If it fits–it ships’, this could be a major find and a clue to their COMPLETE culture and language back then…”
Seriously though, I just found an email from Ntathu–from December that I didn’t answer
Holly Jahangiri
January 19th, 2013
Hahahaha!! I was picturing the demise of Houston as a direct result of my opening boxes containing snakes and swords… I’m pretty sure my fellow Texans would prefer you not risk it.
Did you slay the viper, then?
I’ve been hanging out in the Speculative Fiction parts of the Internet and thought I read “Seriously though, I just found an email from Cthulu – from December that I didn’t answer.”
Dude, you’re in TROUBLE…
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Dave
January 19th, 2013
An English mattock allowed me to pull it out of the bushes and that Slitherin-occupier is now trippled bagged in the garbage-bin and ready for pick up.
I said “Ntathu” because I have this whole Yoga thing going on…Don’t practice your Jedi mind tricks on me Holly
Holly Jahangiri
January 25th, 2013
I’m so very glad that you conquered Slytherin! Ten points for Gryffindor!
So, does Ntathu know your interest in Yoga? You are following her blog, I hope!?
Jedi mind tricks? Would I do that? ::innocent smile, and an innocent simile – which is very much LIKE a smile – thrown in for free::
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Dave
January 25th, 2013
Yes, Ntathu knows and she has passed along some sage instruction since you introduced us. Yoga is the only thing that allows me to exercise isolated muscle groups without giving up and braking out the old Jane Fonda work out tapes from the 80′s where I sit on the couch and watch Jane Fonda breathe in an abnormal yet pleasing fashion while eating cheetos.
I think one of things I like best about your writing is your approach to “Universal Bullshit” as you call it. Your writing always has a sense of pragmatism, a mist of idealism and a smear of nose-thumbing thrown in for fun
Holly Jahangiri
January 26th, 2013
Dave, did you know that there were Yoga therapy HORSES?
(Maybe an author friend was just joking – pulling our legs – yoga, on HORSEBACK? But it has a certain appeal, doesn’t it?)
See, that’s the kind of exercise I could get into: Yoga, while riding a Lippizan, talking about the craft of writing with a well-loved author… hmm.
Too bad all the guys who did those old exercise videos looked… well, you know. Really good in pink and baby blue tights.
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Dave
January 28th, 2013
We use “Yoga-Gators” in Florida. Straddle the tank and work those abs baby
Holly Jahangiri
January 28th, 2013
That’s hardcore, Dave – I’ve ridden the Palmetto Bugs down there, but the gators just laugh at me when I try, and their toothy grins scare even ME!
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Holly Jahangiri
January 26th, 2013
P.S. Dave, you know you do not have to be a blogger to get yourself a Gravatar, right? It’s free – just go on over to Gravatar.com and upload a head shot. (Not a Texas-style head shot – a photo.) I like to see your smiling face on comments. I mean, I know it’s you and all, but a big black box doesn’t quite fit my image of you.
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Dave
January 28th, 2013
I tried uploading a gravatar pic a while back upon your insistence Holly and during the process, everything turned dark so I took that as a sign and stopped messing with it—hence the darth-square.
I’m from the other side of the net. We argue about whether or not it’s ok to apply an algebraic sub-set of variables when instantiating an object–your crew worries about SEO rank and sharing-widgets.
On the bright side, I pragmatically purchased my Daughter a hardly-even-used bound set of the ‘Dune’ series at a garage sale and I’m hoping she appreciates them rather than the fantasy-fiction that seems so attractive to youngins lately. She’s becoming a voracious book-a-night reader and as a parent–I’m hoping she becomes interested in the craft as well as the zombie experience.
This is gonna be a tuff week, Dental and surgical appointments while supporting type-A personalities with their computer experience and providing connective joy with mobile apps in a Zen-like atmosphere.
I’ll likely be more pragmatic than idealistic this week…Bummer but we all have a choice and I won’t be listening to the Grass Roots much.
Holly Jahangiri
January 28th, 2013
Dave, Dune lost me on the pustules. But no, seriously – keep your sweet child far from Twilight and Anita Blake, and all will be fine. A little Neil Gaiman, perhaps? I’m just glad to hear she’s a voracious reader, like her dad.
Dental AND surgical? Or dental surgery? I hope that all goes well!
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Holly Jahangiri
January 28th, 2013
Not sure what the Gravatar deal was – shouldn’t be a problem, but Sally Brown was having issues with it a while back, and now it seems to work just fine. Try it again!
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Garen
January 20th, 2013
Wow Holly,
This is a really good post! On the part about controversy sells. You couldn’t be more spot on. I have founded a business based on that. My business name is Dead Dog Design and believe it or not it gets a big reaction from lots of people. They remember it because they thing “oh I love my dog.” and it sticks with them.
It’s so true that you should develop sites about something you can offer to people rather than just trying to make money. Sure, if all you care about is making money you will probably succeed sooner or later, but a lot of people don’t protect their integrity and get sold on money is the answer to all their problems. I know a number of people that have lots of money and are miserable.
Writing for a cause and with passion is a great idea. I don’t know how many times I have talked to someone that wasn’t passionate about what they did. Just going with the flow. You have to love what you do and you will never really work a day in your life.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 25th, 2013
Thank you, Garen!
Money has nothing to do with happiness. It’s what all that money can BUY… but no, seriously, what it can buy that truly leads to happiness is peace of mind. If you cannot meet your basic needs and take care of your family, it’s hard to be happy. But beyond that – and maybe a little extra comfort and fun built in – it’s all just “stuff.”
Emotional eaters consume more food than they need, in order to shove back emotions they don’t want to deal with. Consumers of all the latest gadgets and toys can be that way, too. The trick is to ask yourself just how long you’re really going to enjoy the “stuff.” An hour? A day? A month? A year? Is its actual value to YOU – its usefulness, its entertainment value, the “style” or “status” it actually confers – worth the price you paid? Or is there some abysmal, emotional void that can’t really be filled with more stuff at any price?
Don’t get me wrong – I like my stuff.
But my mom used to say, “Don’t ever let your possessions possess YOU,” and the older I get, the wiser her words seem. When we’re done with the stuff, we really ought to pass it on to someone who needs it or wants it more, rather than let it moulder in a drawer or closet gathering dust.
I could even get philosophical and say that this applies to ideas – to “passions.” I think it’s an overused word – we don’t have to be “passionate” about everything, but I’d argue that we ought to be keenly interested in something if we’re going to write about it and hope to get readers even slightly intrigued. When we get to that point where we feel we’re “just going through the motions,” though, it’s time to move on. We can go backwards, or stand still – we can step aside and get out of the way – or we can look for that “next big thing” that really captivates and motivates us, and let someone else take up the reins on whatever it was we’ve lost interest in. Because – if you’ve looked at the toe-socks in the department stores and the price of an Atari game system on eBay – someone will take up the old passions and do something fun or exciting with them, if we just let go and let them.
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Jena Isle
January 28th, 2013
This post has generated lots of conversation, even bordering on controversial issues. The most important thing to remember is that striking a balance between the two is important and is a case to case basis.
There would also be time when you could be more of a pragmatist than an idealist and vice-versa.
Good luck with the contest. I hope you’ll win.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 28th, 2013
How do you keep balance when your teeter totter doesn’t go all the way to the top, or there’s a fat kid sitting on the other side?
I agree, Jena – a mix of idealism and pragmatism is more effective than swinging wildly either way. Too much idealism tends to make others feel guilty, or inadequate, even as it attempts to inspire them to be better. It isn’t really pragmatic to ignore ones core values and ideals, though, since to do so leads to cynicism and distrust. If you’re trying to earn a living – or rather, want to KEEP earning one and have a repeat clientele, you need to establish trust AND keep it.
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Maricel
January 30th, 2013
Amen to establishing trust and keeping a repeat clientele. Another thing, if you can’t be trusted with little things, (oh, you know the drill) … Sometimes, we think it’s too tiny for people to even notice. But if it doesn’t feel right, then it’s got to be wrong … well, at least not 100% right, right?
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Holly Jahangiri
January 30th, 2013
There’s a reason Pinocchio’s conscience, Jimminy Cricket, was a tiny cricket. Your conscience doesn’t always beat you over the head with a two by four or magically appear like some powerful force field to stop you from doing the wrong thing. Sometimes, it’s just a little chirp in the back of your head – kind of an annoying little chirp, like a cricket under the floor. It’s all too easy to ignore it or hunt it down and step on it, but it’s best not to do that – if you want to be real and earn people’s trust and respect.
“Squashing your conscience like a bug” metaphors at 6:30 am… well, you did say “creepy,” didn’t you?
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Maricel
January 30th, 2013
That little fellow.
Yeah, he was always there for Pinocchio but never even once overpowered Pinocchio’s will with his own.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 31st, 2013
That would defeat the Maker’s purpose – oh, Lord, this is the first time I ever saw Pinocchio as some kind of weird, religious allegory! Free will… conscience… sin… atonement… forgiveness… mercy… oh, and I thought C.S. Lewis was the only one who had me fooled into thinking he was just telling a good tale!
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Maricel
January 30th, 2013
You’re right, Jena. Lots and lots of comments now, and for some reason, I’m having trouble going back to those comments I posted where others replied. Or is it me catching the laziness bug again? I think it’s more the latter, LOL.
Wow, the contest is finally coming to a close. I really, really hope you win, Holly.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 30th, 2013
I’m finding it really difficult to make the screen stay put to reply to any comments here – is it the new template, the volume of comments the threading “issues,” or all of the above?
It has become a challenge. I cannot even imagine either of you ladies “lazy” though I think you’re entitled to be!
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Maricel
January 30th, 2013
Yes, that, too – comment threading. Probably the reason why it’s easier to be “lazy” than go back to the comment and leave a reply.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 31st, 2013
I’m sure Brian thought he’d fixed the threading problem when he applied this template – but he underestimated US, didn’t he? ::evil laugh::
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Jena Isle
January 28th, 2013
CORRECTION: There would also be “TIMES” when you could be more of a pragmatist than an idealist and vice versa.
The grammar police might be around.

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Hajra
January 28th, 2013
Oh, so true. Sometimes one has to take the call. What is more important. In an ideal situation I wouldn’t want my friend to fail a test, but the ideal situation also requires them not to cheat. But if they haven’t studied then it is more practical for anyone to help them a little bit during the test.
I feel the same holds for bloggers too. All of us can promise ourselves that we are “nice” bloggers and won’t do anything “wrong” for the money. But then we go ahead and do a few reviews that we don’t really like only because it pays well and believe me, sometimes money is what is making the world go round!
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Maricel
January 30th, 2013
Going back to a reply posted by Jena (whew, that felt like a lifetime ago already … have I been out of Blog Engage circulation that long?) back when this contest was in its earlier days, we can’t judge people until we’ve taken the paths they’ve taken. And even then, we are not in a position to judge. (Did I paraphrase that right, Jena?
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Holly Jahangiri
January 30th, 2013
I understand what Jena’s saying, but I think we all DO judge others. And I disagree that we should never do that. I started to explain, but I think this post does it better: http://provocativechristian.wordpress.com/2009/04/06/provocative-bible-verses-judge-not-lest-you-be-judged/
It’s not about “not judging.” It’s about the yardstick we use to judge, and being willing to have that SAME measure applied to us. If we judge others too harshly, we can expect to be held to the SAME standards – by others, or by God. If we are quick to forgive, and to be kind, we can hope for the same forgiveness and kindness. I see it as cautionary – not “check your brains at the door and overlook every wrongdoing committed by your neighbor” – as that would have us sending our kids to play in the local pedophile’s yard – but rather, try to understand and have compassion for the failings of others, and make sure we’re not just as guilty of the same or other equivalent failings. Fix ourselves before we beat up on someone else for doing what WE do. In short, don’t be judgmental hypocrites.
We see in the news, almost every day, where that leads: World-renowned homophobic televangelists who preach against the EVILS of adultery caught cheating on their wives with gay men or other women; politicians who would smear their opponents for taking bribes caught red handed with their own hands in the cookie jar… the list goes on and on. I think the word “judge” might better be “condemn” or “pass sentence on” – I don’t think, though, that we ought not to judge a behavior as being “right” or “wrong,” else how can we judge our OWN behavior, or recognize “right” from “wrong” and avoid wrongdoing?
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Maricel
January 30th, 2013
I think the word “judge” might better be “condemn” or “pass sentence on” – I don’t think, though, that we ought not to judge a behavior as being “right” or “wrong,” else how can we judge our OWN behavior, or recognize “right” from “wrong” and avoid wrongdoing?
- You’re right, of course, Holly.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 31st, 2013
I really don’t have any snappy comebacks to “You’re right, of course, Holly.”
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Maricel
January 30th, 2013
LOL on grammar police. Well, sounds much tamer than grammar Nazis.
But I bet they all do the same thing – whack you at the back of the head when you commit a grammar crime.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 30th, 2013
Yes, it does sound nicer – almost anything sounds (and IS!) nicer than Nazis. (Of course, “Grammar Nazi” was never meant as a compliment, more’s the pity…) I have to resist, you know – here. After all, it would be a conflict of interest to ask for comments to help me in winning a contest, only to turn around and nitpick the grammar or spelling. Mama didn’t raise no fool…
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Maricel
January 30th, 2013
Oh, of course, you never do that – nitpick on grammar and spelling, you know. Just that, I think, Jena belatedly realized a mistake of hers, with a joke about the grammar police. I do that all the time, too. Post a comment and then realize later something is wrong. If only there’s an erase/edit button for each submitted/approved comment …
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Holly Jahangiri
January 31st, 2013
Nitpick, no. Exploit a good typo for all the humor that can be wrung out of it? Yeah, I would. (I love those unintentional Freudian slips.) But never nitpick – that’s just petty.
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Tab Pierce
January 29th, 2013
There’s a lot of meet in this article, which stirs thought and emotion within me. I do try and give, to be understood but mostly to understand and listen. Changing an idea into something more, something believable isn’t easy. Honestly, I think I’ll come back in a day or so and re-read this. Thanks for a thought provoking post!
Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
Thank you, Tab. That’s all I could hope for in writing this – to stir thought and emotion, and get people to consider (or reconsider) what they are capable of. I’d love to hear your thoughts after you’ve had a chance to digest it.
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George J Lloyd
January 29th, 2013
Certainly! Aren’t you the best example, Holly?
Not enough words? What silly check is that?
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Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
Told ya they had to be meaty! That is part of the CommentLuv Premium plug-in, and one of the things that annoys spammers to no end (although some can pass it by spinning up a few paragraphs of “War & Peace” to much the same effect as a hundred “great post” comments!) There are some other sneaky little tricks, like hidden fields that change names every few hours so autobots can’t write around them, and required number of key-ups… it’s a lovely plug-in, truly. But it can be annoying when you REALLY just want to say, “Great post!” can’t it? I know, I know…
Thank you, George – it makes me smile to see you’ve come back, and your continued support means a lot to me.
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Stewart
January 29th, 2013
A good “call to action”.
The wonderful thing about today’s internet is that we can all publish to it so easily. Younger internet users may not even realise that there was a time when we were merely passive recipients of information pushed out on static web sites. Now, whether you are sharing your words, video-sharing or photo-sharing, the most important aspect is the control that the user has to publish whatever they want to the web. Internet users are no longer passive recipients of information placed there by organizations and institutions. Instead they are active contributors and publishers. Social software tools have levelled the playing field.
So it is really important that this power and control is used wisely to promote good, share knowledge, and ensure transparency in all civil processes. The blog is mightier than the sword
Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
Indeed it is.
I worry, though, that with so much “noise,” the real value of the Internet as a publishing platform for sharing IDEAS, not just the latest gadgets and face creams, will be diminished or its potential unrealized.
Maybe I shouldn’t. Change comes slowly, but it does come. More and more, I see real, regular folks talking – making friends with complete strangers, halfway across the world, and realizing that that’s not strange at all. Twenty years ago, that was a notion that half the people I’m currently friends with on Facebook could not fathom – “Oh, I thought you meant you were talking to REAL people – you mean you were talking to people in the computer?” Yes, little tiny three-inch tall people IN the computer… What did that make ME, I wondered? Of course we’re all real people.
Even the ones who aren’t. Even the spammers. They have lives and loves and families and other interests, too. I picture them wasting them in the endless pursuit of faster, more effective ways to part the unsuspecting “marks” from their hard-earned cash. My friend, Jena, pictures them feeding their families; I picture them exploiting someone else’s. Who knows? They don’t make any effort to let us know them, do they?
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LeoBasic
January 29th, 2013
I think that, despite your needs to earn money, you have to be yourself, honest and give a true value to your readers.
I always want to test something that I plan to recommend to my readers ( new tool or something like that ), and see is it worthy to me. If not , than there is no way to make recommendation for that.
And in long term , everything is back to you, because people will recognize.
Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
I think so, Leo.
You know, legally, in the US, there are rules about advertising and endorsing products. Bloggers tend to forget those – or be blissfully unaware of them – and I hope that they manage to police themselves before laws are made that negatively impact all bloggers, even the ones who try to do it ethically.
I’ve know bloggers who wax eloquent about products they’ve never laid eyes on, in person, let alone tried for themselves. Their posts read like fluffy feature lists or specifications. They sometimes lie outright. But I know readers who do appreciate the recommendations from ordinary people who’ve tried and used products and give an honest opinion. Or who simply run ads and admit they don’t have a clue. Honesty is important, I think. And yes – if you ever want those readers, those customers, those buyers, to come back and buy some more through YOU, you get one chance to get it right or to screw it up completely, don’t you? If it’s just a numbers game it probably doesn’t matter so much – assuming you know how to play it well and get in and get out. But I’m not sure there are THAT many people who do.
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Gary Brewer
January 29th, 2013
Holly,
I like the article about politics and civics. Unfortunately I think far too many people voted in the last election on single issues and not how government and responsible government works. I think we need to take care of each other just like our own family. But just like our own household where we have to be responsible the students in school need to learn that about government.
Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
Not JUST the students in school, Gary. There are a lot of folks who are long past school age who don’t understand how government works. There are plenty of elected officials who either don’t understand it, or who have built their careers on their constituents’ lack of understanding.
I believe that “charity begins at home.” I also think that the distribution of aid via charity can be a bit too arbitrary. Not that the government necessarily does it better – but is that reason enough not to try to improve that? Too many people are stuck on mistakes of the past – “It didn’t work then, so it won’t work now.” What about the WPA? Imperfect, yes – but it helped at a time when the US needed that kind of help, and a lot of public projects got completed, a lot of mouths got fed, as a result.
Too many of the same folks who don’t want “big government” or “intrusive government” are all for regulating their neighbors’ private business. I call that hypocrisy, and I think there ought to be a law against it – but then we’d all serve time, now and again, wouldn’t we? Talk about overcrowded prisons!
Thank you, Gary, for adding your thoughts to the conversation. I hope you’ll come back!
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Ruud Reijmerink
January 29th, 2013
Great post! Indeed it is important to write from the heart and passion! As a blogger you should also go beyond the borders. Just be a borderliner…
Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
Which borders are you thinking of? The borders of nationalities? Definitely. The world is both larger and smaller than we imagine it, and I think we’re discovering and pushing those borders every day, when we communicate with people online from different cultures. I think this could lead to world peace, as we gain better understanding and lose our fear of people we perceive as “different” from us. At some point, we start to see that for all the differences, we share a LOT of the same core values. We express that differently, to be sure – but when it comes right down to it, we all want our basic needs met and to be able to take care of our families. That’s one enduring value we probably share with cavemen – HOW we go about that and how unselfish we can be in the process depends on how well we all support each other, don’t you think?
Or maybe you meant the borders of decency and good taste.
I don’t know about that, but I don’t think any blogger ever got crazy rich by playing it so save that it was easy to glance past their blog to something more interesting and exciting. Where I, personally, try to draw the line on controversy and entertainment is to not be mean-spirited and hurtful towards others. (I’ll call politicians out when they are mean-spirited and hurtful – and I’m not always nice about it. But I do try to play FAIR.) I’ll tease friends over a typo and pray they understand I’d never do it if I thought they were stupid and unable to laugh at an innocent mistake. I don’t believe in humiliating people, though I do believe that as human beings, we need to have a sense of humor and be able to laugh at ourselves and with each other over our human foibles.
I had a friend, years ago, who struggled with grammar and spelling, but she honestly WORKED at improving it and did – by leaps and bounds. She’d sometimes get frustrated and say, “I’m so stupid!” I’d get a little angry at that and tell her, “I don’t have stupid friends.” To me, “stupid” is someone who is unwilling to learn, uninterested in improving their skills, and thinks barely adequate is fantastic. The first time my friend submitted an article to a real publisher – a newspaper – they ran it on the front page, above the fold, and gave her a regular job. So there – I don’t have stupid friends.
I have a lot of friends who’ve never benefited from much formal education (although that particular friend actually had two degrees in subjects that were not English or Writing).
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Sunish Sebastian
January 29th, 2013
Great article!
Most people including me are blogging these days just for the money. Find the most profitable keywords and spit out content. Thats’s what is happening these days right.
But I know a lot of people who personally do it just because they love it. They write for a cause. They write to make a point.
My good friend from Florida, who is in his early 80s still blog everyday. His blog is set up on a free platform and I sometimes help him with few customizations tho. He does not care about the number of visitors to the articles, the number of comments. He has no sponsors. Although, he is liberal in his views, he does not endorse any political party.
All he does is write and respond to the comments. As I monitor his site analytic, I can see the number of hits he revive. He refuses to monetize all that traffic.
I call it passion. He can very well make a good chunk of money with what he writes.
Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
Your post is very telling, Sunish Sebastian.
I don’t know about “passion” – I think that’s an overused word in blogging. But what I see in your examples: Blogging for money/spitting out content vs. blogging daily into your 80s, sharing liberal views, refusing to monetize a blog that’s demonstrated a good audience – it’s PRIDE in one’s work, and dedication to a purpose. At 80-something, I’m guessing that your friend has what he needs to live on and is keenly aware that he can’t take money with him into the next life. He has made a commitment to his blogging and enjoys it as a platform to share his views with others. He is a disciplined writer, writing about issues he cares about. He cares about his readers enough to respond to their comments. And this is important for young people to understand – older folks with a social support network live longer. He’s got that through his blog, and perhaps offline as well, but it is actually good for his health.
Now, contrast that with the blogger who only wants to make money and so “spits out content.” We writers will agonize over the construction of a sentence, trying to communicate the shades of meaning in the ideas flitting through our brains. This blogger you describe, who “spits out content,” he doesn’t have pride in his work – in fact, in many cases, it’s not even his work. There are article spinners that will do his spitting for him, using bits and pieces of others’ WORK so that he can do whatever it is that really floats his boat. I don’t know why I find it a bit sad that he’s probably NOT making a million bucks with this tactic; I should be downright gleeful that he’s getting about what he deserves. If he were making a million bucks, the shades of every writer whose content was ever wrung through an article spinner like yesterday’s limp lettuce might come to haunt him with invoices and DMCA notices. But the older I get, the more I think lack of originality, lack of imagination, and lack of pride in one’s chosen work are curses in and of themselves. I actually feel sorry for this blogger, because he’s spending his time at a meaningless pursuit, when he could likely do as well, financially, at something he feels more “passionate” about. Imagine a carpenter who hates wood, or an artist forced to be an accountant. It’s just sad.
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Mike Allton
January 29th, 2013
I particularly appreciated your point, “A good discussion involves listening, as well as speaking.”
I have been coaching a lot of clients lately on blogging, and I have had numerous discussions about the value and use of comments. Some clients don’t want to allow comments because they think it will be too much work, but I have argued that without comments, there can be no discussion and interaction, which should ultimately be more valuable than the post itself.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
Even newspapers, which have always been something of a one-way broadcast mechanism, recognized the importance of feedback and two-way communication with their readership, and employed that in the form of “Letters to the Editor” – the vetting of which, given limited space, is arguably MORE work than moderating comments to ensure standards of humanness and basic decency are met.
Radio shows invite listeners to call in and participate. Many TV shows are designed around audience participation, or encourage it in some form.
Communication is never a one-way street, even if you envision and want it to be one – the audience will find a way to have their say, too. I’d rather that be a welcome, friendly, lively dialogue than an exchange of rotten produce and flames.
And for the blogger in search of new material or the company on a quest to develop products people actually CRAVE and are willing to pay for, that dialogue – especially the active listening part – is essential.
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Joe Chengery
January 29th, 2013
Hello Holly,
I think that is a great, informative post. Too often, we, as online marketers and businesspeople, think about the profits we need to make to sustain ourselves and our families, often leading to us promoting products that others recommend for affiliate commissions.
While there are many online marketers and businesspeople who are reputable and don’t promote every product under the sun, but just the ones that they use in their own businesses and/or ones they hear good things about from close friends or associates, there are others who do promote just about everything that comes their way, even if they have never tested it, and thus, lower their ideals and even forgetting that they are in business first and foremost to help their customers in their own businesses and solving their problems and challenges.
After all, if you don’t help your customers overcome the problems and challenges they face, you gain no profit, and thus, you have no business. Plus, you’ll gain a bad reputation if you constantly promote just any product just to promote a product.
Again, excellent article on making one think about what he/she should really be blogging about and why he/she should be blogging. Keep up the great work!
Take care,
Joe Chengery (e)JOECHENGERY
Holly Jahangiri
January 30th, 2013
Thank you, Joe!
Yes, bloggers who recommend products they’ve never tried are doing their readers a disservice, I think – unless they CLEARLY state “I’ve never tried this and am strictly going by my opinion of how the product looks, which – heck, you could do without my help, but I’m going to blather on about it anyway.”
I mean, certainly, I could do research on two cars and share my own decision-making process, right? That would be fair, so long as I was clear with readers that I hadn’t actually test driven either of them, had no idea if they actually lived up to their claims, and was basing my info on published specs or opinions of friends or what I saw while driving past the car lots at 40 mph… and there’s some value in that, actually. It’s honest and I might mention a feature that’s important to me, that someone else hadn’t even THOUGHT of when considering a car. They could then ask their dealer about it. Like… automatic headlights. My Pontiac Montana’s headlights came on at dusk and switched to running lights when it was light out. My Honda doesn’t have this feature – but I forgot to ask about it, and assumed all new cars had it. I drove around without headlights the first night I had the car. Fortunately, I didn’t get into an accident, but it’s now on my “list of things to check” next time I shop!
My point is that you can blog about what you don’t know, and even that can have value, if you’re honest with people about it and HELP them make informed choices. If you KNOW something’s terrible, doesn’t work, has no customer support, and would be a clear waste of money – you cannot “sell” it as the best thing since sliced bread. It’s dishonest and, in many places, illegal. If only people would follow the Golden Rule – treat others as they, themselves, would LIKE to be treated – well, this whole post might be irrelevant.
While it’s certainly no “get rich quick” approach, I think that ultimately, that kind of honesty and values-driven approach to business IS the pragmatic approach. I wonder how many frustrating hours are utterly wasted in waging battle against Google algorithms put in place to prevent “gaming the system” and how many hours are spent by Google developing better algorithms? I’m sure there are more interesting, fun, rewarding, humanity-advancing things all these people COULD be doing with that time.
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Dave
January 30th, 2013
I’ve tried to read all the posts so if this has already been mentioned, well, tough luck
From a reader’s perspective I truly appreciate a product review from a trusted source that has actually used the product. A case in point is Holly reviewing Sharpie markers a while back. This isn’t a big deal until you go to read all the tiny notions you labeled on a huge array of telephony punch-blocks from a couple years ago only to find that they’ve faded into unreadable smudges while trying to trouble shoot a connectivity problem. Users are neither patient nor understanding when you have to go back and re-trace channel and port from a phone server.
Holly’s description of color intensity with Sharpie markers was like a head slap. Why wasn’t I using the gold standard rather than purchasing something on sale off the end-cap at WalMart? I have some label notations on plastic from telco and network installations that are still readable after ten plus years using a Sharpie. I don’t use anything but Sharpies now and it saves time.
I appreciate the time that an honest product reviews saves me, everything else is just passing along research I could do for myself and is simply another time suck.
Holly Jahangiri
January 30th, 2013
You know, Dave, reading your comment, I think I should go into business reviewing pens, keyboards, blank books, dogeared books, eReaders, pencils, paper, and all things related to writing.
What’s really hilarious about this is that the message I was reading RIGHT before reading your comment was a reply on Google+ from a new friend I’ve been geeking out with over Lamy Fountain Pens. (Really geeking out – we’re talking about how to clean nibs and whether flushing with water or alcohol is better. We’ve just moved on to exactly how long it takes us to kill a ball point pen – IF we use one.) There are some product review opportunities I’d kill for, even if it was for nothing more than a free sample.
Others…meh. Leave those to someone who’d kill to write about other things.
That review for Sharpie Markers? I had to fight for that one – Klout told me I wasn’t qualified, because I didn’t have enough Klout in PENS, or something. I went over to Twitter and friended Sharpie and tweeted my lament. I mean, seriously, who is more into PENS than ME?
Didn’t take an hour, as I recall, before Sharpie told me I was in like Flynn. I love Sharpie Markers.
I don’t like badmouthing anyone, so I tend to shy away from even reviewing anything I can’t say something honestly positive about, unless it’s SO bad I think people ought to be warned. I do try to find something that could be improved – Lord knows, I don’t trust a gushing review, myself. But honestly, if I gush over a pen or a keyboard, you know I’m dead serious – these are the tools of my trade.
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Dave
January 30th, 2013
I’ll tell you what Holly, I love talking about nibs and the art of letters, symbols and Iconography. Alcohol and Naphtha are the best for inks and water is best for acrylics but one should store the nibs in mineral oil or they’ll deteriorate quickly after cleaning and nothing will flow.
I went with my son when he scoped out tech-college this year. All credits are transferable after certification but the thing that got me was that his geek-derp-computer instructor is certified as a Master Calligrapher–I wrote the tuition check on the spot.
An honest review, which is all I’ve ever read from you, is priceless marketing in this day of “Food Reviewer Cards”. I was going to ask Chris Ford about that but don’t know him well enough yet. Chris doesn’t pull any punches in his reviews and I enjoy them for the education they provide.
I’m pretty sure you’re qualified to comment on pens. Too bad there isn’t a body of certification for pens. We’d have fewer damaged shirt pockets and no mumbles glued to the bottom of purses I think.
Holly Jahangiri
January 31st, 2013
Alcohol and Naphtha? Sounds like a recipe for a Molotov cocktail, Dave! And how do you store a nib in mineral oil when it’s IN the pen and in regular use? Should it be given a rest or switched out and bathed in mineral oil?
While we’re on weird chemical substances, can you even buy Naval jelly anymore?
Certified Master Caligrapher? Okay, so here’s the problem with “certifications” – once you reach a certain level of expertise, it’s insulting not to be a member of the certifying body – in fact, it’s insulting not to be asked to help formulate the standards. And it would be nearly impossible to acquiesce to any suggestion that one obtain certification after decades spent working in a profession.
It’s like the time my daughter suggested I go back and get my GED. I mean, I had an A.A., a B.A., and a J.D., but no – she wanted me to go back and get my high school diploma. I thought she was nuts; she told me I needed to set a good example – and she CRIED. Well, hell no I wasn’t going to do that – I doubt I could’ve passed Algebra at that point. And I seriously did not care.
Now she gets it and just thinks I’m snotty for going to college so young and graduating at 18. But she’s good at many things I can’t do at all – like playing violin and piano, composing and conducting music, sports, roller skating… so really, and I’m hoping she gets THIS by now – who cares?
I suggest you get to know Chris better. Ask away. He’s a great guy.
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Dave
January 30th, 2013
I’m not sure if the premise of this blog is a correct contrast but maybe that’s the whole ruckus?
Only a pragmatist can earn money with a talent while defiling a craft? The Idealist with a vocation and a bantam affiliate payment in his or her fist isn’t allowed to ask: “Please sir, I want some more” ?
I don’t see the rub. Pragmatism can be laudable in its frugality and felicitous nature without becoming, something that is unbecoming. The idealist has equal talent but also puts bread on the table while being faithful and interesting without turning readers off with smarmy statements.
I think both have sympathetic goals and have much in common. Only Character, craft and moxie will make either worth spending my valuable (to me) time to consider what they write, and whether I end up thinking: “Please sir, I want some more”.
Holly Jahangiri
January 31st, 2013
Oh, you’re on to me, Dave.
Of course it’s a lopsided argument – idealism and pragmatism are hardly opposites. But I couldn’t just say “To Be Successful, Must a Blogger Check His Ethics at the Door?” or, “Does Lying Through Your Teeth Work for You?”
You put it so much better, though, in your second paragraph. And I always want my readers or customers thinking, “Please, sir, can I have some more?” (Or ma’am, but that screws up the allusion and besides, you know, it’s hard for some folks to tell across teh Interwebz, apparently.)
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Anni Bricca
February 1st, 2013
I couldn’t agree more with, “Write what you know”, or what what you’re passionate about. If it comes from within your internal knowledge or drive, you’ve won half the battle there. Within that, hold you own. Stir the pot. Make a stand. Poke at things with sticks. Make people think. But don’t write about things you don’t know or write just because it’s timely, unless that’s your topic or you really do have something of value to say. In short – be real. Be genuine. And your writing will follow.
Holly Jahangiri
February 1st, 2013
LOL – Anni, that’s exactly what I do: “Stir the pot. Make a stand. Poke at things with sticks. Make people think.” I’ve often thought of myself as a pot-stirrer, but poking at things with sticks – that really sums it up. I poke pretty gently, but now and then, I poke a possum or a rattlesnake. That’s not much fun. So I guess I’d add, “Be ready to jump and run.” No, no, no – that’s not quite the right metaphor. If you’re going to poke at things with sticks, don’t be cowardly – trolls are cowardly. Be ready with the cement block of logic that could hold a possum or a rattler at bay.
I need more coffee. My metaphors are a little creepy this morning. Genuine, but creepy.
Okay, on a more serious note, I’d also add that even when speaking from knowledge and drive, be prepared to check your facts if you’re poking things at sticks and before attempting to drop a concrete block of logic on the possum – no one is as wrong as the person who’s wrong, doesn’t know it, and gets righteously indignant about it before finding out he’s…well, wrong. It’s always easier to eat crow if people are still feeling gracious enough to let you pluck its feathers and cook it first.
Oooh, good lord. Need more coffee. Maybe a pitcher.
Thanks for dropping by, Anni.
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Holly Jahangiri
February 1st, 2013
You kind of have to figure that, over 700 comments, only about five people are actually reading this far. I know who you are. And I hope you’re smiling at my horribly mixed, poked, and pot-stirred metaphors. Happy Friday!
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Prakash from Best media player
April 24th, 2013
The blogger should be idealist and pragmatist both. Because in many situation he will have to become practical.
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prabhat
April 29th, 2013
hello, in my opinion yes a blogger can be both but i am amazed to see the responses, there are 718 responses on this page, i have never seen this much comments on any blog. its awesome, this is the power of blogengage
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