
Qualifying Article for Year End $1000 USD Contest
A Fragile Alliance
In recent weeks, I’ve discovered that there is a tentative and fragile alliance between my inner optimist and my inner cynic, my inner idealist and my inner pragmatist. I propose that, as bloggers, we strive to balance our core values with our desire for financial success, and try to succeed at both. To do less is to be less.
To that end, I hope not only to influence your approach to blogging as we move towards the New Year, but also to enlist your help in ensuring my financial success – by voting for, sharing, and having a real and engaging conversation in the comments section of this post. There’s a $1000 prize at stake, so I hope you enjoy this post and find it thought-provoking.
Politics, Products, and Promotion
If there is one good thing about an ugly and contentious election year in the United States of America, it is that people who slept through high school Civics class are now catching up, gaining a deeper understanding of their Constitutional rights and obligations, including the right to vote. They are awakening to the fact that one vote, one person, can make a difference.
Even in the heat of battle, U.S. elections are still reflecting some of our higher values. Foreign election officials have marveled at the trust we have in the process and in each other. Is it worth losing that to sell more ads and airtime on TV? Buried under a barrage of ads and opinions, how do we decide who and what to vote for – or against? Remember that you can find all the answers by searching the Internet, so long as you don’t much care that any of them are accurate. The news media should reliably report the facts, and, through editorial opinion pieces, influence readers’ choices through persuasive arguments. But, as any blogger worth his salt knows, that facts aren’t as important to the advertising sponsors as a sensational headline or a tantalizing hint of scandal.
You may be wondering, “What has this got to do with me? I don’t blog about politics. Why should I care?” Putting politics aside, for a moment, ask yourself what it is you do as a blogger. Most likely, you blog to inform your readers, to influence their choices, and to sell products. It can be very tempting to use these catchy headlines and titillating bits – to weave them into your own blog like bait on a hook – without taking time to research the facts and build an argument on solid evidence.
I would urge all bloggers – but particularly the young, who still have so much to learn and experience – to resist the temptation to write about topics they barely understand and care even less about, just because someone has told them it’s going to make them a ton of money and it’s “good for SEO.” How many bloggers have become rich just following someone else’s lead, re-spinning the headline news without explaining their own thought processes or infusing it with fresh opinions of their own? Write what you know – but also share what you’re learning and the ideas that have led you to your conclusions. Be humble. The need to be right all the time makes people to want to kick you in the shins and prove you wrong.
Consider the awesome power of the press, and the fact that every blogger has the opportunity to reach a global audience of amazing proportions. As “citizen journalists,” we can be heard and we can make a difference in the world. It’s our choice whether we make a positive difference or simply add to the noise and confusion. That much is within our control.
Passion, Credibility, and Core Values
Forget about passion – figure out what your core values are, things like “honesty,” “integrity,” “family,” “success,” “faith,” and so on – and let them infuse your writing with heart and meaning.
“Wait, what? Core values? I’m writing about trashy celebs, gadgets, sex toys, diapers, and cell phones. There’s no money to be had in this ‘core values’ stuff.” I’m not so sure that’s true, but it can be tough to choose between the promise of short term gain and the slower, harder path to a solid reputation and authority. Do the things you’re blogging about matter to you, or are you just doing it for the keywords? Why do you think these things matter to the people who are searching for them? Do you think it’s possible for your cell phone to reflect your core values? Have you ever heard of Credo Mobile or Working Assets? How can you blog about your chosen topics, provide value to people searching for information, and yet make your blog a reflection of what matters most?
Just as important: How would you feel if a friend advised you to buy a piece of junk with your hard-earned cash? Would it matter to you that he’d read somewhere that it was a really great thing – and was just repeating what he’d heard? How would you feel if you could be sent to jail just because three people said, “Someone told me he committed the crime. Why shouldn’t I believe them?” Facts matter. If honesty isn’t one of our core values, as bloggers, we are really doing ourselves and each other a disservice.
You may think, “I can’t afford to be that honest, I have to earn a living!” Yes, we all do – but if we’re not honest and fair with each other, we can’t trust anyone. Where does that leave us?
Write for a Cause
There’s another old saying: “If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem.” Refuse to be part of the problem. As we move into 2013, consider how you can influence everyone around you to be better, and resolve to make the world a nicer place. It’s the only place we’ve got.
Promote What’s Good!
Have you considered joining affiliate programs based on whether the companies and products you help to sell represent the things you believe in? Consumers are beginning to care about corporate ethics, particularly in the United States, after Citizens United v. FEC gave corporations unprecedented power to influence election outcomes. When choosing between two similar products, the decision may well hinge on whether the company that makes and sells the products reflects the buyer’s own values. Look into whether the companies behind the products and services you promote are actively working against the things you believe in. Can you turn a blind eye to abusive labor practices because it keeps your toys affordable? I think that issues will become a greater factor in buying decisions as we move forward into 2013 and beyond. Blog about your own choices and the information you found that helped you to make them. Then promote the people, the companies, and the products that help form the kind of world you want to live in. You will, at least, be starting the conversation.
Do something just because it’s good, too. Search engines don’t buy products or click on ads – people do. Join in Blog Action Day, in 2013. Or take up another cause. Raise funds to fight cancer or bring clean water to communities that don’t have enough of it. Or to help end hunger.
Learn & Share
Whether you’re 10 or 110, one of the keys to living a full, rich life is to keep learning new things. What are you curious to know? Share what you learn with others. If you’re writing blogging tips, look for some unusual work-savers and shortcuts. Develop a whole new method of doing something. What new things are you driven to create or to experience? Be sure to take pictures and tell your readers all about it. How did you go from dreaming to doing?
Stir the Pot
Remember: Controversy sells, too. There’s enough of it in the world that you don’t even need to add hype and drama – in fact, if you sincerely want to start a conversation and solve a problem, I’d suggest you ground your posts in facts and personal convictions, focusing on the issues that matter to you and avoiding the hype and drama that might cause readers to ignore you.
A good discussion involves listening, as well as speaking. Encourage people to engage in conversations – with you and with each other – and discourage vague generalizations. During the political campaign, I often heard people say things like, “Why should I vote? All politicians are alike. They all lie.” Perhaps that’s true. What can we do to encourage greater honesty, and lessen the rewards of lying (which could also be called “telling people only what they want to hear”)? Are all smartphones alike? What are the differences and, more to the point, why do they matter?
Together, as bloggers, we can make a difference. It doesn’t always have to be some grandiose effort on a global scale. Resolve to be credible and to make a positive difference in your readers’ lives, and you can change the world – starting with your little corner of it.
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About Holly Jahangiri
On a good writing day, Holly Jahangiri claims (tongue-in-cheek) to be channeling the spirits of Edgar Allan Poe, Erma Bombeck, and O. Henry. On a bad writing day, she claims to have poured every last ounce of her creative ability and energy into childbirth, and has two wonderful children to prove it. You can find her on Twitter @HollyJahangiri (http://twitter.com/hollyjahangiri), Facebook (http://facebook.com/hollyjahangiri), and It's All a Matter of Perspective (http://jahangiri.us/new) - to name just a few of the places this social media butterfly flits.
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Kevin Ocasio
December 10th, 2012
Excellent article Holly! Definitely a few things for bloggers to think about going into 2013. I completely agree with what you said:
“I would urge all bloggers – but particularly the young, who still have so much to learn and experience – to resist the temptation to write about topics they barely understand and care even less about”
… you see this a lot in the internet marketing and make money online niches. People writing about things they know nothing or very little about just because they think they can make money from these niches.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 11th, 2012
Thank you, Kevin.
I think the irony is that most of those niches are no longer rightfully called “niches.” A niche isn’t just a “market segment,” I don’t think – it’s a carefully defined, not very large market segment. It comes from a word meaning “nest” or “shallow recess in a wall” – carrying with it the sense of something small and well-suited to the one occupying it. Some niches are more like sprawling suburbia than a true “niche.”
I’m out to buck a trend and dominate the no-niche niche, myself. Which is NOT to say that I’m trying to take over the world, but simply that when the day comes that any site like Blog Engage figures out the perfect “category” in which to pigeonhole my blog, I’ll have failed utterly.
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Jena Isle
December 11th, 2012
Your blog? It’s all a matter of perspective.
If I’m a reader who is into writing, I would say your niche could be writing. If I’m into kid’s stuff like, “A Puppy,Not a Guppy” (I hope I got it right this time) then it’s a children’s blog. It’s all a matter of perspective of the reader really.
To me, it’s a mixed bag blog or personal blog.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 11th, 2012
Are you trying to make me feel like a failure, Jena?
I usually do stuff my blog under “personal” or “mixed bag” (though that latter just sounds like a mish-mash o’ crap from an old bag, on a bad day).
The kid-stuff’s over on “Imaginary Friends,” now, you know.
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Jena Isle
December 13th, 2012
I respect you too much to do that, Holly. I have faith in you. You should know that by now.
You know, mg old Gewgaw blog is similar to your blog. It was a sacred place for me then, untouched by Google Adsense. The topics are also whatever I wanted to write at the moment.
Now, it’s a stranger’s blog.
.lol… with Adsense and Chitika ads, because I couldn’t maintain it any longer, with my personal articles.
I know eventually, I would have the time to truly write my thoughts.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 13th, 2012
You know that Kalinga is my favorite, right? Even though you don’t write there often, it’s the one that gives me a glimpse of a life I can’t otherwise see for myself. And I find your health articles to be informative and solid. I’m kind of “meh” about all entertainment articles (in other words, it’s not you) but at least yours don’t have the “hype” and lurid gossip most do. Yours are informative and interesting and blessedly short – and have often led me to discover artists I might have missed (since I don’t watch much TV and never catch any of the Idol shows). I can say with some certainty that you are the only entertainment columnist I read. Take THAT, Perez Hilton!!
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Jena Isle
December 16th, 2012
Wow, I’m flattered. Thanks for that Holly. That inspires me more to write. I do miss writing for Clamor. It’s Christmas vacation right now, so I can write more. I’ll update all my blogs and attend to online chores now. Let’s keep going.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 16th, 2012
I’m glad you get a little break, Jena! You work too hard. You should have some fun.
I will look for an update on your personal blogs – I miss them, too. But try never to let Clamor become a “chore.” I think the fact that it’s not is one of the things I love about it.
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Maricel
December 17th, 2012
I’m on Christmas vacation, too. Hurrah! I’ll have more time to update stuff, post comments and things of that nature. If there’s anything I don’t particular relish about Christmas vacations though, it’s the fact that I usually get my pockets drilled with holes of all shapes and sizes after the holidays and festivities.
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Hajra
December 16th, 2012
I always tell people that variety is what keeps me going in blogging. If I had to blog about blogging every week, I would have nothing to say by the fourth or fifth week maybe! ( considering I am writing daily) I feel so amazed by people writing about making money day in and day out. They have a million ways to make money online and that is all what they are talking about. I am not saying that they are doing anything wrong. All I am saying that is variety works for me, the no niche niche works for me. S sometimes I am talking about life, but sometimes about social media and sometimes about totally something unrelated. As long as I am having fun
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Maricel
December 12th, 2012
Given that the pen is mightier than the sword, there’s no question you can take over the world, Holly. The only question perhaps is when.
Well, no-niche niche is a term I first heard from you. In other parts of the blogging world, they categorize the no-niche niche under general. May not be the “perfect” category, but it does make sense, right?
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Holly Jahangiri
December 13th, 2012
Hahahaha… well, you’ll get a special place in my Cabinet, if ever I do take over the world, Maricel.
“General” just doesn’t have the same ring to it, unless it’s a military title. It sounds like “generic.” Which sounds boring. Which would literally be the kiss of death for my blog… so… I hope not!
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Maricel
December 14th, 2012
A place in your cabinet would be nice, Holly, LOL. Now, I’m going ROFL over here. Did I just say a place in your “cabinet?” (I know you capitalized it!
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Yeah, “general” is just too general. And “generic” is just too generic.
(Comment value for this comment? I’d say zero. I practically just picked some words in your comment and moved them around.
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Hajra
December 16th, 2012
I have seen a lot of personal blogs lately that fall under he no niche niche. They talk about personal experiences usually but also discuss social media skills, maybe talk about current event and share their stories of making money and the likes. I think that is a good way to work on your writing skills and to keep the variety alive and the discussions going!
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Jena Isle
December 11th, 2012
Kevin, I echo what Holly said, thanks for dropping by. Sometimes, there are topics that we do not know at first, but as we research and write about them, we learn more about the topic.
Holly’s article is thought-provoking, right?
See you around.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 12th, 2012
Research ought to consist of a bit more than a Google search, for many of the topics I see bloggers diving into. “Mesothelioma” for instance, is one.
If you cannot add to the body of real and useful knowledge, don’t capitalize on people’s deathbeds and make it HARDER for them to find the information they need.
(Too judgmental, Jena?)
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Jena Isle
December 13th, 2012
Now, this is where I state again Holly, that it depends upon whether you’re writing news or not. If it’s new, editors specify that you state only the facts and not any of your opinions, unless you label the article under opinion. News is different from your ordinary posts, where you could add your own thoughts.
Of course, if you’re writing about scientific data, it has to be referenced from the original source, preferably a book, or a trusted site – unless, you are an expert yourself, or you know sufficient facts about the topic.
That’s why it’s harder to write news because you can’t add your opinion. Now, that I do it in my own blog. I do try to insert an opinion or two, now and then.:D
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Holly Jahangiri
December 13th, 2012
No, my point wasn’t that you should add your opinion. My point is that it isn’t “news” if it’s already been covered in all the major sources (that’s where content curation comes in, but people aren’t very generous about linking to original articles and news sources, these days); if you don’t have NEW FACTS to add, why add to the noise and confusion and make people sift through a mountain of nothing just to figure out what’s accurate and authoritative? You know the movie “Lorenzo’s Oil”? Imagine having to sift through all the crap on the Internet, these days, looking for the gems that might actually lead to a cure for some rare disease… careless blogging makes that hard, and even dangerous.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 13th, 2012
Now, having said that, it may be news to your particular audience – as I said earlier, when it comes to American Idol, I really do live under a rock – but if a halfway motivated person could find 2 million articles on the point already, why bother adding more? That’s really my point. If you’re going to write “news,” you have to be fast. Or kindly link to better sources that were. (There – that last bit is my opinion, and I should clearly label it as such.
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Jena Isle
December 16th, 2012
That was exactly one of the points I included in my BE contest article and comments – to write the news first. It’s excellent if you could write about the news first, and that’s what I try to do. That’s why I sometimes do live blogging. (Writing about the show while it’s still on-going.)
If I cannot write the news first, then I look for some related item and focus on it. Of course, the main news has to be mentioned first.
For the reality singing competitions, I try my best to post first, or be one among those who post first. But there are bigger websites than mine so they eventually stay on top of searches. I’m still happy with the results though. The money earned helps to pay the bills.
I do earn some traffic, sometimes more, sometimes less. As I keep mentioning, I’m still to equal my highest earnings at AdSense, and while I’m still blogging, I will never give up.
What matters most is that I’m doing my best to earn my keep honestly and responsibly. Because at the end of the day, I have to deal with God and my conscience.
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Jena Isle
December 16th, 2012
Yes, I should write about it first because it is when you’re first that you earn the most. That’s really my target. As I have mentioned somewhere in these comments that I sometimes do “live” blogging so I have higher chances of writing it first.
If I can’t, then I try to look for some item not focused on or try to present it another way. I usually double check my facts so that I don’t “add to the confusion” as you say. In fact, I try to clarify doubts in certain posts.
That’s why I don’t write all news because I feel that I would not give justice to it. Since I’m writing for my own blog. I could also insert an opinion or two now, and even write about an opinion under my opinion label.
I hope that satisfies you.
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Hajra
January 28th, 2013
I feel I will enjoy live blogging but as of now, I just don’t have the time. But then I don’t worry too much about what is being discussed RIGHT NOW so it is something I might take up only if someone pushes me into.
But wouldn’t be live blogging too opinionated because you never know what happens the next moment or even that your viewpoints might change over a period of time.
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Koundeenya
December 13th, 2012
Whoa! That’s really awesome to read a post on such unique topic. I love the way you used headings- Politics, promote and all. An idealist and a pragmatist, a blogger is. Lovely. A very nice read. Thank you
Holly Jahangiri
December 13th, 2012
Thank you, Koundeenya! I’m glad you liked my post, and I appreciate your taking the time to let me know by leaving a comment here. You’re very welcome.
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Jason Mathes
December 13th, 2012
Holly great article as always! As a blogger I have to keep my political opinions out of my own blog. It just doesn’t fit. So I’m good there.
I was thinking about it as I was reading your article. We are ambassadors of our own little slices of the web. We have to be politicians in a way. We promote our own blog vying for visitors. We do the virtual smooching of other peoples derrieres with a smile on our face. So were not very much different from the presidential candidates in that aspect.
As to advertising? I ONLY provide advertising/affiliates for products I know, trust, and pretty much use. There are 3 ads on my site for products currently that I don’t have – but I know and trust them from doing my research as well! I know how hard it is to want to make a buck online. On the other hand though? I need to keep my own moral compass straight! I’ve lost a lot of potential earnings online because of this – but I get to sleep OK at night too. You can’t buy peace of mind.
I try and do good with my own blog. I promote Child’s Play (link below btw) which helps out kiddies who are stuck in the hospital during the holidays get video games and toys. Although I do get some juice by people visiting I don’t actively promote it on the web. It is just a link and small article on my site that people will see when they visit.
As to controversy? If done right it can bring you a ton of traffic. If you don’t do your research? You’ll get blasted and sure you’ll have that one time influx of traffic – but you’ll have lost your credibility and people will never visit you again.
In the end though? I’m not trying to change the world. Just trying to make it a little easier to deal with
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Holly Jahangiri
December 13th, 2012
Jason, could you really have imagined that I didn’t like you anymore when I didn’t reply right away? You, of all people, understand some of the constraints around that… and of course there was that awful plug-in (which I can’t say I blame Brian for TRYING, but in the middle of a contest is no time to ‘speriment with comment-restricting captcha plug-ins unless they’ve been adequately functional and load tested in a proper sandbox, eh?) This was kind of like me playing with blog themes the other day. At least I took one look at that and said, “Oh, heck no, I don’t have time to be messin’ with all that right now!” Ironically, Twenty-Twelve is from the same folks who coded the theme I AM using, so…surprise!
But no, it’d need a lot of customization. I’m still going to play with it. It’s just what I do over holiday breaks. I know – sad, pathetic little life I lead. LOL
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Holly Jahangiri
December 13th, 2012
I hit Enter before I actually REPLIED – how silly is that?
Political opinions may NOT fit your chosen niche, but that’s the only good reason to steer clear of them unless you’re just chicken… Okay, I’m kidding about that, but seriously – I don’t think there’s much reason to steer clear unless your opinions can only be expressed in terms that are calculated to piss people off. Any conversation is a two way street, with obligations on both sides. I don’t TRY to piss you off, and if you GET pissed off, you try to refrain from commenting until you can be reasonable about it. If either side violates that unspoken agreement, flamewars naturally ensue. And some people enjoy those – that’s fine. There’s a time and a place for it, and I think some phases of the moon actually cry out for it.
Please do not smooch my virtual derriere, Jason. I’m pretty sure that’s non-compliant and completely sure it’s unnecessary.
But I do appreciate your helping me to promote this thing, and as a friend I will drop by and do the same for you.
I don’t expect to get elected to the office of dog-catcher, but at least I’ll have fun running.
And that’s exactly how I feel about it – you cannot buy peace of mind. On the other hand, it’s all relative, isn’t it? As Jena points out, if it’s a question of being ethical as a blogger and feeding your hungry child, which is it going to take to let you sleep nights? I like to think I’m an ethical person, but as much as I value honesty, I value my children more. I guess before we buy from anyone, we should ask if they have kids and when they last ate.
I just donated to Child’s Play – didn’t take much more than your say-so, but having spent time in hospital waiting rooms, bored half to death, anything that helps kids cope and take their minds off their troubles there is good in my book!
You know, even adults – we were taking bets two years ago as to how long it would take me, after a 12 hour surgery, to get back online. I think it was about 7 hours. I don’t remember, but I was still in the ICU and logging on with my mini. And my phone. And – yeah. Thank God for hospitals with wi-fi in the ICU. It does make a difference.
As for controversy – you don’t always have to be right. You have to be respectful. You can have a discussion on your blog, express strong opinions, but allow others the same courtesy. Moderate the comments to avoid all ad hominem attacks. Expect people to be passionate but also kind. I don’t think you lose credibility by being wrong, but you can definitely lose it by being wrong AND stubborn about it. It’s one thing to disagree on opinions, but quite another to argue against facts. Of course, you should always consider the source of the facts – during the recent political campaigns, it was almost a requirement to triangulate the facts with three or four opposing sources. Still – I think rudeness causes people never to visit your blog again. Incorrectness, coupled with a little humility, is acceptable.
Making the world a little easier to deal with IS changing the world – you make a difference to someone, and maybe they go on to make a difference to someone, too. That’s all it takes, unless we really @#$% it up.
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Jason Mathes
December 14th, 2012
I’ll try and keep it brief:
Thanks for donating to Child’s Play! Although it isn’t MY charity. Its one of the few that I think isn’t bogus or wrapped up with religious garbage etc. Its a bunch of gamers who wanted to help kids and created this. Which is rare now days!
And I don’t ever intentionally kiss anyone’s ass online. I’m sure my nose is a little brown but it isn’t because I got down on my knees to do it. I do post honest comments and if I think someone is doing something awesome I let them know it!
For online eithics? I can tell you it is very hard. If you notice on my blog i don’t tell you how to make money online? Well that is for two reasons: A) I haven’t made much online. and B) My own money situation would make me a total idiot to write and post articles in ANYTHING dealing with money. Because truth be told? I’m broke. Like I can afford to pay the bills but don’t ask for anything extra broke. So when I say my blogging budget is ZERO? I really mean it!
So I can say that although I’m tempted to break my own personal ethics because of being financially destitute? I still pull in the reigns as the reason for me blogging is to help people first and make a buck second. It is tough some days though!
As for Controversy? I’m not afraid of it. At the same time – there is enough drama online. I don’t need to add to it. I have a few articles that I would consider “controversial” but they are pretty tame in today’s online environment. I think the worst one I’ve done is my Thesis 2.0 review which has probably cost me a lot of sales. I can’t outright lie though and tell people to buy something that is half baked and shouldn’t have been released quite yet. Sucks when the user base becomes the beta team.
Anyways – as always Holly – good luck! And thanks for YOUR continued support
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Holly Jahangiri
December 14th, 2012
See? You’re credibility is good with me – I didn’t figure you’d be promoting that charity if it were bogus! And seriously – my son’s into video games and he’s blessed with good health. I’ve spent time in hospitals and waiting rooms, and know what an absolute godsend it is to have a puzzle or a book or a game to distract you from why you’re there, whether you’re a patient or the loved one sitting in the waiting room, hoping for good news. Or at least anything but BAD news. So that’s a charity I can relate to and want to support.
Mine is Relay for Life – not because the American Cancer Society directly benefited me, but because it has directly benefited loved ones and friends who’ve not only spoken highly of it, but who have donated in support of it – proving they’re not just saying it’s something they believe in, but don’t give back to. Also, my son’s Scout troop was involved in Relay for years before I was diagnosed with cancer – that’s actually how I first learned about it. I can relate, on a personal level, and I know that they do help a lot of people. To me, that’s what charity is all about.
I like volunteering – if I had an endless supply of time and energy, or won the lottery tomorrow, that’s something I’d do more of. The closer I can be to the people being helped, the better. There was NOTHING like helping people find and reunite with lost family members after Hurricane Katrina. Just nothing compares to that feeling when a father and daughter talk for the first time in days, learn everyone’s alive and safe, and better yet – they’re only 15 minutes apart and she comes to get her dad out of the shelter of the Astrodome and into a warm bed.
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Jason Mathes
December 19th, 2012
Holly – thanks
that means a lot.
I do like volunteering too. I had the most fun volunteering for various things. From working with Autistic kids, or working on the Tournament of Roses parade, or helping to clean up. I liked feeling part of and doing some good. (Which trust me… my youth was not filled with much of that!)
Thanks for donating! And good luck with the contest! Keep the faith!
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Holly Jahangiri
December 19th, 2012
Thank you, Jason! Good luck to you, too!
I think volunteering shows you a couple of things – you can make a big difference in someone’s life by doing something that’s not all that hard or extraordinary; you feel good for having done it; you get the sense that since it does matter, maybe you ought to do it again; and you see others helping out and realize the world’s really not a bad place – there are plenty of good people in it.
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Hajra
January 28th, 2013
I volunteer at a local hospital and believe me, you learn to value a lot more than you went in with. There is nothing but good to take out of the experience. And a smile you see on the receiving end makes all the difference.
Once a week, I take English classes for people who are fighting psychological issues. And it is amazing. There is a whole team working and it consists of volunteers ranging from the age group of 16 to 60. Not only do you get to make a difference but you also see what an ideal world looks like – one human helping the other and expecting nothing in return.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 28th, 2013
You take English classes for people who are fighting psychological issues? I thought you were the shrink? How do English lessons help with psychological issues?
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Hajra
January 29th, 2013
I am the shrink. But this is a separate institution. These are people who have been fighting psychological problems for a good part of their lives and thus couldn’t catch up on other academic and other activities. So the behavior sciences pavilion at the hospital holds various classes in their day care centre, English classes, computers, a few sciences, cooking, hobbies and many many other things. These are people who just need to get their lives back on track.
So they need volunteers to conduct the classes and help them with it.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
So you’re TEACHING the class – as a volunteer! (Big difference there – you said “taking”
– Yeah, it’s not often I get to give you a hard time, these days, Hajra.
Your students are lucky to have you as a teacher.
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Sally Brown
December 13th, 2012
Hi Holly,
What you say about promoting affiliate programs you believe in. This is very important to me to promote only what I believe is a go product, of value to others and an ethical and legal company. This is probably the reason why I don’t make much money blogging. LOL Great article and whenever I read it, I find something new to dwell upon. Good luck in the contest! Sally
Maricel
December 13th, 2012
Welcome to the club, Sally – the club of bloggers who don’t make much money blogging, LOL. Well, there’s two of us now, at least.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 13th, 2012
Um, three, but I can’t honestly say that I’m TRYING that hard, either.
Except when it comes to these contests, of course. Then it surely amounts to less than minimum wage, for the amount of time and effort that goes into it. But still – it’s fun. It’s like the costs of blogging – you could look at it as expensive, or you could consider the amount of entertainment you get from it over the course of the year, too.
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December 13th, 2012
I’m sure there are MANY programs out there – many products to promote that would meet our criteria – but they, too, get drowned out in the hype and noise. Seek out the quiet ones and give them a voice.
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Alan
December 15th, 2012
(I find myself shyly wanting to ask, Where the heck did you find an ethical an honest affiliate program that you really believe in to join?….seems to me That would be headline news)
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Holly Jahangiri
December 15th, 2012
What brands do you like, buy products from, use, and trust (or at least trust to produce a good product at a fair price that you would recommend to your friends)?
How about:
http://www.thinkgeek.com/affiliates/
http://affiliates.barnesandnoble.com/
Honestly, I haven’t done much with affiliate marketing in a long while, but I’d look for brands I’d feel comfortable recommending to family and friends, brands I use and believe in, and then work on promoting them. You may not get rich quick that way, but at least you won’t be trashing your reputation and making people hate you.
It’s worth noting that brands are very skeptical when it comes to affiliates’ ability to represent and market their brands effectively: http://balihoo.com/announcements/national-brands-betting-big-on-local-marketing-in-2013-according-to-balihoo-survey – so it’s in everyone’s best interests for bloggers to do a better job than they’re doing now, or companies will just take on their own online marketing and sales programs and bring them back in-house. Why mess with the headaches of affiliate marketing if it’s not working, or worse – is actively harming your brand’s reputation?
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Jena Isle
December 16th, 2012
Alan, Google AdSense is an ethical and honest affiliate program for me so far. It doesn’t reveal though how your earnings were derived, but that’s okay with me.
I trust them, because I believe they’re fair and square.
I usually trust people, unless they have done something grossly wrong.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 16th, 2012
I’d say that AdSense is “neutral,” but certainly not unethical. It serves up ads, based on your content and what readers were looking for. I’ve been watching it at work since GMail was in beta, and it’s actually kind of fun, sometimes. I mean, who wouldn’t rather see ads for stuff they care about than just random ads for stuff they’ll never need or want? Some people perceive that as a little weird and stalkerish, but so long as it’s done by computer algorithms (and frankly, humans hardly have the time or resources to scrutinize your shopping habits to the nth degree), I really don’t much care.
I had taken AdSense OFF my blogs, in 2008, when it started serving up political ads for the party I was… well, NOT voting for. Now, you can block such ads altogether, and I do, so I’ve added it back onto my blog. I block all the the addiction trigger ads, as well (pharma, gambling, sex-related, etc.), so I’ll likely not get rich fast, but I can live with that.
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Maricel
December 17th, 2012
Oh, wow, that’s me, too. I usually am very trusting, unless people do something grossly unacceptable.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 17th, 2012
Me too, and I’m always a little surprised when someone does something “grossly unacceptable,” though you’d thing I’ve lived long enough to have sufficient data points NOT to be that surprised. But seriously, life’s more fun when you don’t spend it certain everyone you meet is going to screw you over. What a miserable way to live, eh?
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Maricel
December 17th, 2012
If you think there’s somebody out there who’s not going to screw you over instead of thinking there are a lot of good people out there who’d be willing to save you from yourself, then yes, I think that’s a miserable way to live.

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Hajra
December 16th, 2012
Like Maricel said, welcome to the club – of people not making enough money through blogging. Why do you think we are so desperately entering contests?
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Maricel
December 17th, 2012
Like Jena said in a comment above, let’s cut the crap about joining contests NOT for the money. Because, well, yes, we join contests, first and foremost, for the money, right? And then comes the fun part – getting to know people, getting to understand cultures, getting to experience the company of the best bloggers in the world.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 17th, 2012
LOL – did I ever say or imply that? That I didn’t enter for the money?
Of course, what I’ve said in the past about contests and money is true: IF you need the money (as opposed to how we could all USE a little extra cash just falling in our laps, some days), then your time and energy is better spent on a job, most likely.
Because a JOB – even if it’s less money – is a sure thing. This is a form of gambling. You put your best efforts into it, spend your time and energy promoting your entry, and in the end – there are NO guarantees. In the end, you can look around and go, “OH, my god – I set my sites on $1000, but if I’d spent that SAME amount of time doing a minimum wage job I thought was beneath my dignity two months ago, I’d have that much and then some. What have I done??” If you’re ONLY doing it for the money, there are probably more certain, less heartbreaking ways to earn it. You have to ask yourself just how upset you’ll be if you lose, even while maintaining the attitude – and belief – that the prize is YOURS.
So, having said all that, one of your “rewards” in entering a contest had BETTER be the networking, friendships, exposure opportunities for yourself, your work, your blog, your business – and you’d better find that worth all the effort and time. Because that’s the only thing you’re pretty much guaranteed to get out of it.
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Maricel
December 17th, 2012
Well, I wasn’t really sure what your stand was, LOL. But I pretty much figured out you’ve got a pragmatist in you as well, although I must say I think you like the friendship, the exposure and the opportunity far better than the cash prize. (That’s just me thinking though. Please correct me if I’m wrong.)
With Jena, I was pretty certain she actually did it for the money, in part. And I’m pretty sure that I did it in part for the money myself. 
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Holly Jahangiri
December 17th, 2012
Oh, Maricel, I like both.
And I suppose there, you have my answer – I do firmly believe that you can be both an idealist and a pragmatist – that it actually IS pragmatic to conduct your business ethically and with others’ needs in mind, but not to lie and say that you’re not also in it to make a good living. I don’t need millions. I do need for feel I’m doing something worthwhile, and I wish everyone in the world could derive satisfaction from their work – we spend too many of our waking hours trying to earn a living NOT to have some fun and a sense of accomplishment while we do it. So in that sense, you’re very right – when it comes to contests, at least, I’m in it for the friendships and the fun as much as for the money. If I weren’t, well, I invest too much of myself into it – the disappointment when I lose would be crushing if I didn’t find satisfaction in those aspects of the game.
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Becki Jolly
December 16th, 2012
Holly,
Thank you for such a thought-provoking article. I had actually not considered these issues until you brought them up. I plan to implement them in the coming year. Thank you for making the world a nicer place!!
Becki
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Hajra
December 16th, 2012
That is what I liked about the post, I never have thought about this consciously until Holly pointed it out for us, it is surprising what we do and don’t think about!
Holly Jahangiri
December 16th, 2012
It’s hard to be conscious of everything all the time. I can’t stand her and claim I actually think through the ethical aspects of every purchase I make – that could possibly make your head explode. But if a company is KNOWN to be doing something UNETHICAL – I’ll choose to spend my money elsewhere. I’ll speak out and blog about it. I won’t turn a blind eye and mumble something about it being harder to drive another block to a different store, or how I just can’t LIVE without my favorite brand of whatever.
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Hajra
January 28th, 2013
Do you think writing (via social media) has become the most powerful tool right now?
I mean, earlier only the journalists and print experts had direct access to having their say. But now, it takes seconds to start a blog / twitter account and write about whats on your mind or tweet (or as my father says, twattack) something / someone you find unethical or something to bring to light.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 28th, 2013
I think that it has, or had, the potential to be – but no, I think that the noise-to-signal ratio has rendered it somewhat impotent; certainly, it’s as competitive as print or television, even if it is faster and cheaper and easier to break into.
It’s all about reach – but how do most bloggers go about getting those readers? With thought provoking insights and novel ideas? With great writing? Not so much.
Even the blogger who thinks, “I could never write so well, or so persuasively!” could read and share links to what inspires him. But put it together like a patchwork quilt, not a copy of someone else’s homework. Be a little original and reach out to readers as friends and encourage continuation of the conversations.
Anyway, it is A powerful tool – in fact, we’ve seen revolutions planned and carried out with the aid of social media. It has the ability to break down barriers – social and economic barriers – and get people talking to each other, independently of their governments and their established “leaders.” They’re choosing new thought leaders through social media. I guess my point is that a saw, in the hands of a carpenter, is a wonderful tool for making amazing things – in the hands of an amateur, it’s a really good, fast way to ruin good trees or to hurt yourself.
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Hajra
January 29th, 2013
Yes, with the good comes the bad also. Though it can be a powerful tool, it has full potential of being misused to the maximum. Like, bloggers writing hate speech and derogatory posts that just increase the hate and ideas that promote misunderstanding.
With power comes great responsibility!
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Holly Jahangiri
January 29th, 2013
There is something positive that can come, even from the posting of hateful and derogatory crap, though. It is aired to the light of day – exposed to better ideas, and – if good people aren’t afraid to speak up and speak out against it – shunned and put in its rightful place. Not voicing those kinds of thoughts and feelings doesn’t make them go away, does it? Hiding them under a rock, or where only like-minded people can see them and respond, only lets them fester, I think.
But yes, sometimes in the dark recesses of the Internet, these folks find each other and think their hate and their cruelty are validated by those like-minded individuals and it emboldens them to act on those things. That’s an ugly risk, too.
As you say, with power – and I’d add “freedom” – comes responsibility. If only all children were brought up to understand and appreciate that.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 16th, 2012
Great, Becki! I thought it was a good topic for the end-of-the-year round, and hoped it would get some of us thinking and talking about the direction we wanted to take in the new year. Thank YOU, too – it’s going to take all of us working together with a common goal to make the world a MUCH nicer place, but I have faith in us!
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Mike Hicks
December 18th, 2012
Just wanted to pop in here and say great post, Holly! Appreciate the insights…
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Holly Jahangiri
December 19th, 2012
Hi, Michael, thanks! Hope your book sales are going great – I wish more people would put books on their wish lists and wake up to find books under the tree on Christmas morning!
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Gary Brewer
December 18th, 2012
Holly,
I read your posts with great interest and felt you covered the salient points well, I will forward to my community and be back for more. Thanks and Merry Christmas!
Holly Jahangiri
December 19th, 2012
Hi, Gary – thank you so much. Glad you enjoyed it, and I hope that the rest of your community does, too! Please be sure to tell them to leave a comment and introduce themselves, so I know they’re friends of yours.
I look forward to hearing their thoughts, too.
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Michelle Gilstrap
December 18th, 2012
I think if you have good ideals and you want to change the world then your intent is noble. I too had one of my blogs copied word for word and it was about my cancer experience. I informed the blogger on the other side of the world to stop because it was copyrighted and they acted like I didn’t know what I was talking about. I feel people do not understand your experience if they want to claim your experience as their own. Why would they want to say they had something they did not? I do not know, except they wanted sympathy.
I have written about Poor Lindsey Lohan and how she needs help, but she needs to admit it and seek it herself. I have worked in rehab facilities and she needs to steer herself to one for her own sake and not for anyone else. If she doesn’t we might not have her on this earth too much longer.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 19th, 2012
Hi, Michelle! I agree – what a horrible thing, to have some stranger copy your personal experiences and claim them as their own. Of course, you realize they’re not doing it to claim they had cancer when they didn’t – go to their blog and see if they’re running AdSense, and whether there are high-value ads popping up. See if the post is now littered with Infolinks or Kontera – in context ad links. They’re making money off your misery, period.
I’ve posted some very personal experiences on breast cancer, but they are password protected. Available to anyone who wants to read them, mind you, and you can follow the link at the bottom of this comment if you like. Makes it a bit hard to fall into squeamish territory for the unwary, or to copy and steal the posts without getting caught. Not impossible, but not as hard as some might think – and certainly, it would take a manual effort.
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Hajra
December 22nd, 2012
I like how you mention good ideals. If you know something is not right, then you would automatically stop doing it. However, knowing that one is doing wrong and something that might be also illegal (plagiarism) and yet going ahead and doing it is just plain terrible. That is how good ideals will set you apart from the rest.
If one finds a blog post inspiring, then you could re blog it with the authors permission, obviously, or just write a blog post about the topic and mention the blog where you got the inspiration from and give a back link to it! The author might actually appreciate the gesture! Copying word to word is actually illegal. Why don’t many of us know that?
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Holly Jahangiri
December 22nd, 2012
KNOWING the difference between right and wrong, knowing that a thing is illegal but doing it anyway, is bad – but I think a lot of people really do fool themselves into thinking that laws don’t matter because they’re “not really hurting anyone.” But when you steal someone else’s WORK, then use it to make money for yourself – does it never cross your mind that you’re stealing that money from the original author? If you steal a song and quietly listen to it on your own mp3 player, likely no one’s going to notice, right? But the presumption – and all too often, the truth – is that you’ve given it to ten or twenty friends, or maybe 1000 friends – and have stolen the royalties from whoever it is that owns the rights. Eventually, someone’s going to toughen the laws instead of making them more lenient, meaning that poor kid who really did just download one copy of a song for personal enjoyment is going to get hurt badly when caught. No more slap on the wrist – this is how you get kids and parents being fined hundreds of thousands of dollars they don’t have. So if everyone would just think through who they MIGHT be hurting, before they decide to shrug off the importance of their wrongdoing or lawbreaking, maybe they wouldn’t do it.
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Elio Assuncao
December 19th, 2012
Great article, it is very interesting and I did find it quite useful. Season’s greetings.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 22nd, 2012
Thank you, Elio! Happy Holidays to you, too.
Just out of curiosity, in what ways did you find it useful? I mean, did it give you any exciting ideas for your own blogging in the coming year?
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Mithu Hassan
December 19th, 2012
Great post !! I might say thank you so much Holly !!! Wishing you all the best !!!
Holly Jahangiri
December 22nd, 2012
Thanks so much, Mithu! I’m glad you enjoyed the post. I hope it’s given everyone some food for thought for the new year.
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December 20th, 2012
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Hajra
December 22nd, 2012
The conversation is so amazing here! I am so sorry I missed out so much in between. One question – is it possible to be an idealist when we are doing it for money? Like, most of us are blogging because on the long run we ope to earn through it somehow, okay maybe not everyone but writing reviews, having your site on number one, affiliates, having ads, or just anything we do to monetize it somehow – so, in the long run is it possible to remain an idealist or are we bound to slip now and then? Maybe once a while?
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Holly Jahangiri
December 22nd, 2012
Oh, I think it’s very possible!! Look, everyone needs to earn a living – who doesn’t want to be “wealthy”? There is nothing wrong with that, but when you get that way by hurting someone else – by fooling a customer into spending HIS hard-earned money on crap, for instance, or when you turn a blind eye to how your own really cheap goods are made (say, by 12 year olds working 14 hours for pennies a day instead of learning in school), then no – I don’t think any of us has a right to that. We don’t get to be “better off” when it keeps others from having any opportunities in life – certainly not if we know it and have choices. (We’re all rats in someone’s hamster wheel, I’m sure – but when you know and have better choices, that’s where the rubber really meets the road, isn’t it?)
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Carolyn
December 22nd, 2012
Excellent advice. I can’t imagine writing about something that I wasn’t passionate about. It shows when you’re “phoning it in.” I research everything I write about, even if it’s an app I have used for years. I always learn something new when I do my research which I can then share with my readers.
Good luck on the contest. This is definitely an award-worthy post!
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Holly Jahangiri
December 23rd, 2012
That’s a good policy, Carolyn. Ever notice how, the first time you’re tempted NOT to research an app you’ve been using for years (or any other thing), the manufacturer will have changed some little thing – and sure enough, that’ll be the one little thing you honed in on in your writing and it trips you up? The research lets you know that before you go post and someone else gets to call you on it. If I post a “how to” article, I run through it step by step, myself, to test out my instructions. Ironically, the more expert you are at DOING a thing, the harder it can be to write it accurately – so much has become second nature.
Thank you for reading and commenting, Carolyn! Happy holidays!
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Carolyn
December 23rd, 2012
Good point, Holly. I’m never really tempted not to do research, but Zemanta has alerted me to late-breaking app updates that I might otherwise have missed. Even when I’m asked to write a review by an app developer, sometimes they don’t let me know an app update is coming. Usually the app updates are minor, but I predict that someday I’ll be ready to hit “Publish” only to discover that a major overhaul to an app was just released that morning.
Tech doesn’t stand still!
Happy holidays to you too, Holly!
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Holly Jahangiri
December 23rd, 2012
You sound like a technical writer, Carolyn.
And that’s why technical writers will always be needed, whether they’re given their due or not – experts (software developers) get so close to the thing that they forget (a) you don’t read their mind; (b) all the stuff they put into the app; (c) all the steps needed to accomplish a task. The tech writer’s job is to interview and translate. 
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Hajra
January 28th, 2013
Carolyn is a total tech expert! You should check out her blog. She manages to help you keep sane while talking about the crazy super fast world of tech!
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Maricel
December 30th, 2012
I’m kind of still finding my way around the new blog design. And I’m not sure yet how to feel about it. But kudos to Brian for the great-looking layout.
As well, is it just my browser or what, but I’m not finding the share buttons anywhere on this post?
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Holly Jahangiri
December 30th, 2012
Yeah, just noticed that. Well, he’s trying to make the whole site more “mobile friendly,” which is good, but doing it during the final round of the contest and removing the sharing buttons is NOT COOL.
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Cyd Madsen
December 30th, 2012
Hi Holly. You pose some interesting questions, especially for those trying to make money from their blogs. If you’re performing a service and/or curating information, stick with what you know and earn your keep. But I think with personal blogs, the process of discovery we take readers on can be a valuable shared experience. I’ll pay for following someone’s journey when they reach their destination, not as we’re traveling there together.
I love what you have to say about core values. A post on my own blog was an attempt at an essay of expressing how my core values held up during difficult times. It failed, but that core value remains in place, and that has to be the place from which I write. I’ve also been thinking quite a bit lately about this movement of “passion,” and wondering where it came from. My best guess is it goes back to Joseph Campbell and his advice to young people to follow their bliss when considering their life’s course. Bliss is completely different from passion and requires focus, discipline, and constant refinement of skills. It’s loud enough on the blogosphere as it is. We don’t need more bloggers creating more noise without substance.
I also agree wholeheartedly with stirring the pot. Nobody does that better than Penelope Trunk. I’ve recently heard her referred to as a person we love to hate. She has Asperger’s and can’t help but tell the truth as she sees it, and that is not always pleasant or comfortable, yet we’re drawn to it (she receives 1M hits per month). If you’re not going to stir the pot and take risks with new ideas and perspectives, again, you’re making a contribution to the noise.
This is a very well-written, thoughtful, and visually stimulating post. It’s made me think a bit, and that is always appreciated.
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Holly Jahangiri
December 31st, 2012
Yes, all that “passion” gets to be a bit frenzied and meaningless after a while, doesn’t it?
I believe in doing what brings you contentment, happiness, and joy. That’s a little quieter and calmer than “passion.” It’s also a little less likely to burn itself out too quickly; passions, like flames, don’t always last. Love does. If you love what you do, it doesn’t seem so much like “work,” right?
I’m not familiar with Penelope Trunk, believe it or not, but it sounds like I’d enjoy her writing. I appreciate honesty. Not to the point of cruelty and thoughtlessness, but neither do I appreciate a lot of sugar coating.
I enjoy your blog, Cyd. I’m still a bit haunted by the post you wrote and shared with me a few days ago. But it was that kind of honest.
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Jena Isle
December 30th, 2012
Whoa, what’s this? A New Year’s resolution?
Which one applies? Pragmatism or idealism applies?
Holly Jahangiri
December 31st, 2012
Look at my new blog, http://jahangiri.us/2013 – and tell ME. What do you think?
It’s all resolve.
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Maricel
December 31st, 2012
I’ve just been to your blog, Holly, and I like the brown color better.
Throw in some sweet corn yellow and I’d be feeling right at home – color scheme of my little house, LOL.
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Jena Isle
December 31st, 2012
It’s dull without any combination, but I like the layout.
Try a little yellow as Maricel suggested. Brown goes well with yellow. Congrats!
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Maricel
December 31st, 2012
Great question, Jena. How about both? We can’t be pragmatists or idealists all the time, right?

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Holly Jahangiri
January 5th, 2013
What would you be the rest of the time, if you’re neither of those things? Unrealistic, impractical, and jaded?
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Maricel
January 6th, 2013
I reckon it’s any or all of the above? We all have better days, right?
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Holly Jahangiri
January 6th, 2013
I suppose that’s true. I guess we just hope it evens out in the end, eh?
Hey, read the linked post in this comment – then, let me just float this suggestion: No flowers, no sympathy card – just comments.
Just a thought!
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Maricel
January 16th, 2013
Fate, circumstances, whatever that is, I think, will always find a way to even things out in the end – we just may not be aware when that happens.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 16th, 2013
Are you saying I somehow DESERVED this broken foot?
LOL
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Maricel
January 16th, 2013
Hahaha, Holly. Of course not! By the way, is your foot OK already? Mine seems to be, well, not getting better. It’s heel pain, and I’ve already gone to the doctor to have it X-rayed and stuff. Seems like the muscle that pads the foot is getting weak, if I understood him correctly. Apparently, there’s nothing I can do other than refrain from wearing flat shoes and using protective insoles all the time. Tsk.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 16th, 2013
Oh, no. Wear the insoles. I’m surprised, though, they’d recommend NOT wearing flat shoes – or do they mean ballet flats, with thin soles and no support? I think I’m just going to get some good athletic shoes in black and hope no one notices or cares. I’m glad you got it checked out, but sorry to hear it’s not getting better.
I don’t know if mine’s better, the same, or worse – it varies by day. Right now, I have a big bruise OVER that bone, I think from the boot pressing on the top of my foot. And my foot’s terribly, terribly bored and restless – it wants to be FREEEEEEEEE!! My ankle, too. Just two more weeks, I guess. Or is it three? Oh, shoot, I dunno… two and a half. Feb 1. Here’s hoping I’ll be all done by then.
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Hajra
January 28th, 2013
I don’t believe in that being always true. Fate never ALWAYS get back. Only when it wants to.
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Jena Isle
December 31st, 2012
That’s an excellent answer, Maricel. We should.
“BALANCE” is the key to a better world and a healthier body.
Mother Nature tries to maintain balance so it could survive, and we could survive as well.
The middle way is my way, even if I’m not a Buddhist.
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Jena Isle
December 31st, 2012
Or should I say “SHE” could survive?
I remember what the woman Navi said in the film Avatar: Nature does not take sides. It responds to events to maintain her balance. She cures herself if she could. That’s why when we bury rotten things, the soil eventually gets rid of the useless filth and convert them into something useful.
Sometimes, we overtax her and she could no longer cope, and that leaves us, as well on the losing end.
This also happens inside our bodies. Up to a certain extent, the body has its own homeostatic ability (balancing ability) and defense mechanism to prevent infection and illnesses.
The natural disasters are Mother Nature’s ‘reactions” to man’s actions. She has to maintain balance. (something to that effect)
We cut the trees – we get floods. We test our missiles- we get changes in the earth’s atmosphere, etc, etc.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 5th, 2013
Unfortunately, we also try to second-guess nature and interfere with the balance, even with the best of intentions. We bury rotten things, as you say – but some cultures have left their dead as food for the carrion eaters of the world. Which leads to better balance? We kill off one species, then have to kill off another that would naturally have been kept in check by the first. We eradicate disease, create vaccines, and discover new and deadlier diseases. Yes, nature will find a way to keep US in check, too.
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January 15th, 2013
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Holly Jahangiri
January 16th, 2013
I wonder who might have imagined that the end of 2012 would bring about so many reasons to blog about values and ideals, and to consider things like the role we bloggers play – as a part of “the media” – in disseminating facts, influencing opinions, and inspiring actions?
I think it’s not only pragmatic but responsible to use our platform and our skills wisely and for good. What do you think?
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James
January 16th, 2013
bah.. values are for wusses… blog about hot chicks and beer. thats all that is really important anyway…
whatever you think is right should be the focus of your choices.
I think too many people worry about doing what they think others believe is right, and don’t put enough thought into their own personality.
I do agree with what you said about how to choose what to promote. I always look into people I promote before sharing their products and services. well, now I do anyway, after I got burned a few times by not doing it.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 16th, 2013
Hey, if hot beer and cool chicks are your core values, you go for it.
I’m just saying “don’t be a total sell out or you’ll hate yourself in the morning.”
And what you say about “getting burned”? It’s a shame people don’t look out for each other, you know? The way you phrase this is telling – I know you’re a good person, but it took YOU getting burned before you started looking into what you were promoting. Until it affected you, it was all about the bottom line, right? And that’s a really easy trap to fall into, I think. But if I look out for you, I can be pretty sure you’ll have my back – wouldn’t that be a nicer way to go about it?
I don’t think that’s impractical, either.
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James
January 16th, 2013
its all well and good NOW, but you didn’t know me back when I started. I was desperate to make a buck any way I could, and I was a newbie just starting out, so I fell into all the hype and drama like so many newbies do. You got to know me AFTER I went through that stage, so you just see the results, this amazing guy that everyone loves, and nobody would ever do wrong…
I have promoted a few bad products, and a few that I later found out had some unethical practices behind the scenes. However, I try to maintain my integrity, and only promote quality products that really help my target readers.
If there was a book on perspective… well I might find my way to promote it… (hint hint…)
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Holly Jahangiri
January 16th, 2013
Two children’s books and a collection of short stories not enough for you, James?
Always happy to have a little promotion!
I worry sometimes that I’ve become so jaded to the hype and drama that I’ll miss something truly special – but the minute someone insists that I’m missing a “truly special and unique opportunity,” I can’t hear another word they say. How sad is that? (For example, please don’t ever say the words “VOIP” or “online auctions” to me… just don’t.)
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James
January 16th, 2013
geez. just like me not to comment on here. maybe its lost, but I thought I had already added my two cents to your little bit of brain food Holly.
I kind of like the “write for a good cause”.. since I support eliminating poverty… (working on doing that on a more personal level right now)
When it comes to controversy, I have never done it for the sake of stirring the pot. However, I also don’t hold back just because someone might get their pink panties in a wad over it….
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Holly Jahangiri
January 16th, 2013
And once again, I think the key here is “empathy.” If you consider your values – “eliminating poverty” being one of them – and you have empathy (your own finances may be at the top of your list of priorities, but you know what a struggle it can be) – then I think you’ll be a much better blogger for staying in tune with that and letting it guide your writing to a degree.
Take problem solving as a blog technique – two bloggers set out to identify and solve their readers’ problems, but one has personal experience with the problem, and the other has…Google skills. The first has solved the problem one way, and shares that from his own perspective – it’s credible, because he’s been there and done that, and maybe shares what did and didn’t work, and whether he’d do it that way again. The other shares little tips and platitudes gleaned from around the Internet – they’re all accurate, as far as they go, but don’t really “speak” to the reader, because the reader senses that the blogger doesn’t really get where he’s coming from. Also, it’s harder to have that “passion” for a subject until you’re into it yourself and intimately understand it.
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dimaks
January 16th, 2013
Good luck Holly! For me, it is good to shoot for the ideals but in the end, a person should ultimately contemplate which thing works and can be sustained for further needs and applications.
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Melanie Kissell
January 16th, 2013
Fab-o-matic post, Holly!
I’m just about ready for everyone to get down from their “passion” platforms … or in some instances, “pedestals”.
The longer I hang out in the blogosphere, the more regurgitated stuff I see and you know what? It’s getting B-O-R-I-N-G. If I read another post listing ten ways to recycle your content, for example, I’m going to vomit. The same topics just seem to be rerun over and over.
I’m not saying you can’t put a little “twist” or your own “slant” on a commonplace topic. To me, it’s refreshing to see that sort of thing in action.
But the bigger question remains …
Do you give a hoot or a rat’s dupa about what you’re sharing with your readership?
I get that folks are trying to earn some dough by publishing content online and there’s nothing wrong with that. But it’s “how” some people go about it that’s not so unique. Keyword stuffing for SEO purposes always jumps off the page at me. Does the author of a post like that really think no one notices?! I’m here to tell ya I didn’t crawl out from under a turnip truck.
Best of luck to you, Holly, with the contest. YOU KNOW I’M ROOTING FOR YOU!! xoxo
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Holly Jahangiri
January 16th, 2013
Ah, yes – you, too? I will admit to being a bit bored with the Web 2.0 formula – aren’t we overdue for a Web 3.0 by now? Shake it up, baby…
You know, bloggers could at least do a better job of pretending to be interested. I mean, is that so much to ask? This is one of the skills tech writers know (or should) – and one I employed, recently, in a sneaky bid to get my blog qualified for something stupid. (This is a wild hair I get every 4-5 years or so – and get shot down, then blog about it, then get invited to reconsider – and it’s just silly.) Anyway, if you look at the post linked below, tell me what words I was given to include in a blog post – could have been any words/phrases in there and did not have to be an actual POST (it was simply one of those “prove to us you actually do own and control this blog” things).
I certainly had no passion for the keyword(s). But I wasn’t going to throw crap on my blog, either. That’s my new rule – no mindless crap. (Yeah, I know: “You?? Mindless crap?? Never!” but it happens. More in the spirit of silliness, than anything. And frankly, this post is bordering uncomfortably on it – but it’s not gratuitously mindless crap, I hope…)
Bottom line, I hate wasting readers’ time. You do that, they won’t come back unless they really, really love you as a human bean.
Thank you, Melanie!
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Melanie Kissell
January 16th, 2013
Heck, Holly, we’re WAY OVERDUE for Web 3.0!!
This year I’m getting involved in a movement called “Slow Marketing”. It resonates with me big time and it’s about a lot of the issues you’ve brought to light in this post.
Saying my prayers and keeping my fingers (and toes) crossed you come out on top in this contest!
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Holly Jahangiri
January 16th, 2013
Is that anything like “slow food”?
I don’t know why we’re all in such a freaking hurry ALL the time, myself. Trying to reach the endgame faster?
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Melanie Kissell
January 17th, 2013
I’m convinced, Holly …
The faster you go, the further behind you get.
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sally brown
January 16th, 2013
Hi Holly,
I am so thankful that you have added a call to action for 2013. There are so many things that one individual can do. I’m in the process of setting up just one new thing to help some people in this new year. If you are interested and can knit or crochet, please let me know.
I encourage everyone who reads this to make and care out acts of kindness in this new year. This will send positive and loving energy into the world to combat the negative and violent world. Thank you so much for your article. Sallly
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Holly Jahangiri
January 16th, 2013
I can’t – despite my friend Kathy’s trying so hard to teach me, back when I was on medical leave in 2011.
I wish. Tell me more about your project – is it something simple I could LEARN to do? I’m not entirely hopeless…maybe.
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Raphael Love
January 17th, 2013
It is my opinion that you can be both. It really depends on the subject matter. You can express a thought that is idealistic but can also discuss how some may disagree. Its a balance that can be done with some forethought.
For me i tend to express that thought that anything is possible based on what you believe and paying it forward is really the best thing you can do for yourself.
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Holly Jahangiri
January 18th, 2013
Of course!
All I’m really advocating, here, is letting your values and your ideals inform your behavior and your writing – I see too many bloggers lured into checking their finer selves at the door in the name of making money in their sleep (I hasten to add that I’m NOT talking about cases of desperate need so much as I am referring to cases of callous greed).
A lot of corporations have discovered that there is benefit – even in business – to having some concern for, and giving back to, the communities in which they operate and sell products. To caring about the environment and helping to ameliorate any damage they may do in producing those products. Bloggers, too, have such potential to make the world a better place – I’d just like to urge us all to try a little harder. Not to reject the business side of things, but to remember why people work and earn money. It’s not about being a hamster on somebody else’s wheel, and it’s not about who can stuff the most money in the bank. It’s about living, loving, laughing, and taking care of ourselves, our loved ones, our neighbors. It’s about paying the bills for stuff we need, not amassing debt for stuff we don’t. If you can solve a real problem for someone, they’ll love you and buy what you’re selling. If you create a problem in order to solve it, they’ll catch on eventually and hate you for it.
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