The Blog Engage $500 USD Guest Blogging Contest #1
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As someone who has been blogging for three and a half years I learned that you can reach many goals without being the best at any of them as long as you take a fresh approach and inject your own personality and touches into them to make them unique.
There is a reason why dozens of bloggers all try to sell their own “How to Blog / SEO Tips…etc” and that is because there is room for everyone to weave a slightly different approach that worked for them, or tips they learned along the way. I won’t lie, many of it has been said before in different words but sometimes articulation is everything, if somebody can connect with you in a way that makes sense and is easy to understand then you may gain more benefit from a smaller blogger’s instruction courses than a mega blogger’s instruction courses.

- You Don’t Have To Be The Best Writer
I see some mega successful blogs by teenagers who have limited vocabulary, misspellings in their articles and by International bloggers who write in English that can sometimes come off as broken and fragmented. You don’t have to be a literary writer to be a successful blogger, you just have to connect with audiences on an emotional and intellectual level. You have to inject personality with your readers and write a post that draws something from them that makes them remember your site and article. This can be anything from asking them questions, to sharing information in a way they can relate to. I have seen many bloggers share personal stories including mistakes, lessons, pains and triumphs that connect with a reader’s own struggles and successes which build a connection.
Take a time to engage your readers, respond to every comment with a good reply that asks more about them or invites them to share more information. Every comment is an opportunity to engage.
- You Don’t Have To Be The Best Salesman
Okay, having a great sales pitch is really helpful here but you don’t have to actually sell anything directly. If you have a following you can more passively monetize your sites with CPC programs like AdSense, Kontera, Infolinks or even Amazon Affiliate so that mere banners, ads and text links do the income earning for you without you having to convince someone to buy something. Sure, direct affiliate marketing has higher commissions and potential profits but you don’t really have to do it to be a successful blogger. Once you have an audience, a casual mention of a product or service you really like or enjoy may be enough to throw some affiliate sales your way, so work on building relationships first. You can’t sell to an empty theater, so make sure you fill up all the tickets before you show some commercials before the movie.
- You Don’t Have To Be The Nicest Blogger
Some bloggers have gained fame and recognition for being bold, blunt and to the point. Others may have gained some recognition for being downright rude and upsetting. Pick a style and persona that you want to invest in and stick with it, if you don’t want this persona to leak to your real life name then make sure you use a pseudonym when you blog and leave no trails/traces to your actual personhood.
My own personal thoughts are to always be professional and treat everyone with respect. However I see that it works for some personalities and gets them recognition and attention, so don’t think you have to play nice all the time. Blogging is all about choice, pick what you want to be as a blogger and be it without worries.
Note: if you want to sell people products, best to have a professional personality though.
- You Don’t Need A Niche
Mommy bloggers even though they are considered a niche really aren’t, they are just personal blogs that can talk about anything and everything the blogger wants to discuss without caring whether their post or topic is “in niche”. There are plenty of successful personal blogs and in fact companies love bloggers who are parents, and talk about what they do in day to day life provided they come off as real and have a real reader base.
If you want a niche, you don’t even have to be the best in your niche you just have to be good enough to get attention. This means you have to be unique and original, if 20 blogs talk about Pugs, then put a spin that makes your Pugs blog unique in ways others aren’t. Do the research and find out what makes other blogs in your niche appealing and if you feel you can’t beat them at the game, then do something different. Focus on what you can offer that makes your blog a unique experience.
- You Don’t Need Paid Web Hosting
I prefer self hosted WordPress blogs and tell all my clients, readers and fans why I think that hosting your own blog on your own web hosting company is better than a free blog. I still think this but there are also big advantages to running a blog on WordPress.com, Tumblr or Blogger.com not the least of which is that it is free and hosted in a cloud platform where you don’t have to worry about PHP or script performance and deal with the complexity of a self hosted solution. Wordads is WordPress.com’s own ad network which will even allow you to earn from CPC ads on your WordPress.com blog if you own your own DNS name. The rules are slacking and advertising opportunities will pick up on free cloud hosted solutions. I still think you should get your own DNS name however, this way if you build a following you can take it with you to another platform should you choose to change later.
Note: there are still reasons to have self hosting but the gaps and benefits are shrinking a bit to the point where you can use a free platform until you get a reader base, some income first and can switch later.
- You Don’t Have To Be Number One
Again, there is so much competition you have to know that you don’t have to be number one, you just have to be memorable and carve out your own fanbase and audience. Just like there are hundreds of TV Shows, there are millions of other blogs and you just need to have your own fans and subscribers. As long as you keep them engaged and connect with them you will be remembered and talked about. Try something different and simple for a change, experiment and call readers or fans out with questions. Attack news items with your own unique point of view, be original, be unique and be different. You don’t have to be the best, but be different because standing out against the white noise of blogs is the most important.







