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Building Relationships for the Long Term
Turning a one-time Subscriber to your list into a long-term client has a lot more to do with relationship building than offering good products for sale. Building relationships for the long term will be mutually beneficial to you and your Subscribers.
“The money is in the list” is as true as the day is long. Opt in Lists give you a group of customers who, if you do things right, will make you money. That being said, here are some ways to really shine and foster longer term relationships:
- Be yourself in either your emails or blog posts. Let your subscribers/readers know that you’re ‘real’. Be honest and open and provide excellent value.
Let’s face it, no matter what kind of business you’re in, building good customer relations should be one of your top priorities. All customers, whether on-line or off, like to feel that they are appreciated. It’s easy in today’s busy society for business owners to get all caught up in their everyday schedules of running their businesses and loose focus on why they have a business in the first place… The Customers!
Here’s one way to build those solid relationships:
A Newsletter
An email newsletter is similar to a regular newsletter, but it delivers information directly to your Subscriber’s e-mail address. You may have noticed that most businesses have an email sign up form on their web-site for their newsletters.
The biggest obstacle you face and have to overcome is the fact that people have gotten used to getting junk (from your competitors) disguised as helpful free or paid information.
Many writers put out low-value or sub-standard information simply because they’re writing from a mentality of “I gotta get paid” and when you do that, you completely forget about the people you’re writing to and start to concentrate on you and what you want. KEEP YOUR FOCUS ON YOUR CLIENTS!
Whenever you write anything for your Subscribers, website visitors or customers don’t write with the sole intention of making money. That’s a surefire recipe for disaster.
Making money is nice, but keep in mind that the sustainability of your business is most often based on how many people believe you genuinely want to help them achieve their fondest hopes, dreams and goals.
Without an effort from you to show your readers that you value them enough to part with real information and that you see them as more than just a dollar sign, you’re going to be lumped in a group with all the rest of your competitors. You might as well be wearing a big sign on your forehead marked “Will Do Anything for Quick Cash”.
Responsive Subscribers come from a conscious effort to build a solid relationship with them – people connect with other people.
Now don’t get me wrong, any list owner would love for their Subscribers to buy the products they recommend, but they’re far better off in the long run if they don’t force it on their clients. When they do enough of the right things in YOUR eyes, they will have earned the right to ask you for your money in the form of product purchases, and commission checks from other product and service recommendations.
The big thing is that they have to earn that right by giving up good information that is of actual use to you. When you write anything you expect other people to read, the same thing applies to you. If you’re going to create information full of affiliate links then you’re completely missing the point of what it takes to get people to value what you have to say.
A primary example of how not to build your list rather than Building Relationships for the Long Term can be found in one of my recent posts, entitled “How Not to Build Your List”.
When some marketers build their lists to substantial numbers, they tend to forget about their Subscribers and begin to do what I call “pimping” their list. Once your list(s) grow, don’t fall prey to “pimping” your list.
The real truth is if you want people to eagerly anticipate your next email with every intention of quickly purchasing the products or services that you recommend, you should build trust, be yourself, be responsive and available and communicate honestly. When done properly, building relationships for the long term makes it entirely possible to have people beating down your door to buy anything and everything you recommend.
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About Jane Porterfield
Hi there. My name is Jane Porterfield and I’m your host(ess) and owner of Jane Porterfield dot com. I own another couple of niche blogs called How A House Works and Let's Talk Pregnancy You can find me on Twitter and Facebook: @reddunes and @ltstlkpregnancyand like us on Facebook If you use Skype, you can find me at janep_2012 I'm a retired mother of 4 and grandmother of 2. I'm an avid blogger, freelance writer, list builder and internet marketer. I came to blogging by learning about list building and discovering niches and I'm so happy that I did. I love to write and what better way to express myself than by having my own blog. Be sure to add me as a friend, ouiouioui Like many others online, I've struggled over the years to find my voice, learn, and make money. I'm not getting rich online, but I'm here to share with you some of the valuable lessons I've learned with my internet marketing resources. Enjoy!
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Ileane
April 13th, 2012
Hi Jane, I started building my list earlier this year and I’m just getting into the flow of sending out a regular newsletter. I haven’t decided on a set schedule but I agree with all of your advice about the actual content of the emails. I subscribe to a few myself but I’m very picky about those that I read. I don’t feel the need to offer a freebie which might be the reason my list is so small. That’s fine by me because the way I look at it, between my blog, YouTube channel and podcast I’m already giving away enough free content.
But the subscribers get special attention and like you said, that goes a long way in building relationships. Thanks for the post Jane and best wishes in the contest!
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Jane Porterfield
April 13th, 2012
Hey Ileane. We’re connecting all over the place – out of the blue. I don’t believe in coincidence, so I’m sure we’ll have a mutually beneficial relationship.
It’s been my experience that if you give a free product, you can then bring your subscribers to your blog, YouTube channel & Podcasts. A free product is more enticing for people to be willing to part with their all important info. While you may be offering great content all the time, you could offer it to more people if you gave something away for nothing…. something related to your niche. Just sayin… lol
Jane
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Debbie
April 14th, 2012
Great article Jane with some awesome tips. Building relationship isn’t always the easiest thing to do, when it comes to blogging. Nowadays I’ve noticed the attitude of “if you visit me, I return the favor” the way I see it is, if you like what I write you’ll come regardless.
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Jane Porterfield
April 14th, 2012
Hi Debbie. There is certainly an advantage to “if you visit me, I’ll return the favor”. I’ve found that method great for getting subscribers to my blog from different blogging Facebook groups and from this site – Blog Engage. When I get notification of a new subscriber to my blog, I try to get in touch with the person right away and ask if there’s anything in particular that they’d like to see info about.
The relationship building I was speaking about had more to do with list building (i.e., giving away a free product in exchange for a person’s name and email address). If you offer something of value for free, they’re usually more than happy to part with their info. If you continue to give them value, and build your relationships that way, they will eventually become buyers… once the trust factor is established and they regard you as an ‘authority’ in your niche.
Jane
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Deborah Anderson
April 17th, 2012
Jane,
Great article. I love that you focus on the customer and not the “what’s in it for me” mentality (unless it is from the customer’s perspective. Great post!
I am a people lover and humanitarian, so that is my cup of tea.
-Deborah
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Jane Porterfield
April 17th, 2012
Hi Deborah. Thanks for the visit and the comment. I guess I’ve worked (over the years) at ‘customer service’ type jobs and was always taught that the customer is always right, even when he/she’s wrong… lol
I followed up with this post on my own blog at http://janeporterfield.com with another 4 posts with the same title, but consecutive ‘parts’, i.e., Part II, III, IV & V to date… Hop on over and read ‘the rest of the story’. It’s not finished yet (2 more posts to come), so stay tuned.
Jane
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